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Not being able to get off with women could be for a number of reasons. You may not be able to relax with them, you may have gotten use to a particular way of masturbating, or you could just not be all that into girls. It isn't all that clear.

What is clear is that your attraction to guys revolves around porn. Maybe you ought to give it up for awhile and see what comes of it. Fantasize about girls when you jack off and see how you feel about it. If you go about a month and you just can't seem to get into girls, then try going out with a guy and see if the missing sexual chemistry is there.
 
Here's the dilemma- you've conditioned yourself to be aroused by and orgasm to gay porn.

Yet you want to be with women.

The first question for you is whether you're ready to go down this path and figure out whether you're gay, straight or something in between?

Or whether you want to continue on your current path of being turned-on by men but trying to make it work with women?
 
I honestly had almost exactly the same thoughts - that watching gay porn had "conditioned" me to be gay, that I was still attracted to women, that these feelings would pass eventually... I now realise, of course, that this is the way I was born - watching gay porn wouldn't turn a straight person gay just like watching straight porn won't turn a gay person straight (I tried this, too!).

You could conceivably be bisexual, but if you've tried having sex with women and it hasn't, well... worked, then the obvious conclusion would be that you're gay... not that there's anything wrong with that! And I guess you would have to see what it's like with a guy to know for sure.
 
^I mean, go ahead and try it if you want. Most likely you'll enjoy yourself assuming the escort is cool and attractive. But it really sounds like you're gay, or at least bi leaning toward gay.
 
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