Hi Fellow Jubbers, I have divorced my wife 2 yrs ago partly due to the fact that i realised half way into our relationship that I was gay, now I have fallen in love with her son and he feels the same way about me, can we legally have a relationship and take it to the next level of a civil ceremony, any advice helpful, pls dont judge. thnx
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Well, you're not related, and one assumes you didn't adopt him and one assumes he is of legal age, so you should be able to contract a civil partnership with him.
One assumes that his mother is pleased her son is settling down.
One assumes that his mother is pleased her son is settling down.
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Legally, yes. But prepare for a lot of confusion and people who may want to not talk to you for a while.
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He is 18 but not planning civil ceremony for a few yrs yet
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Age differences like that in the gay community are a lot more common than you may realize. Daddy/son, master/slave, bear/cub... there are all sorts of names & lifestyles for it.
Now, the fact that he's your ex-step-son is a much bigger deal. It would be no different if he were straight and the son was his daughter.
If you don't mind living outside your families for a number of years (maybe forever--they will not handle this well), you certainly won't be ostracized in much of the gay community for that age difference.
Now, the fact that he's your ex-step-son is a much bigger deal. It would be no different if he were straight and the son was his daughter.
If you don't mind living outside your families for a number of years (maybe forever--they will not handle this well), you certainly won't be ostracized in much of the gay community for that age difference.
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This is still incest.
Legally you can pursue him, but remember, you've had sex with his mother. Then you've had sex with him. He may not be your biological son, but he is to her! How do you think she'd take it? Your relationship with your step-son will destroy the love between him and his mother.
You were still his father when he was 16, 17, 18. You sat together as a family to eat dinner. You provided for the household. And now you're divorcing your wife and taking her son?
I am not judging you on a personal level. I am merely pointing out the details of how you have known this family up to this point. You cannot undo the past and the relationships you shared, and expect to forge a sexual, husband relationship with your ex-wife's son that is both accepting and natural.
You are old enough to be his father... and ironically, you were.
Legally you can pursue him, but remember, you've had sex with his mother. Then you've had sex with him. He may not be your biological son, but he is to her! How do you think she'd take it? Your relationship with your step-son will destroy the love between him and his mother.
You were still his father when he was 16, 17, 18. You sat together as a family to eat dinner. You provided for the household. And now you're divorcing your wife and taking her son?
I am not judging you on a personal level. I am merely pointing out the details of how you have known this family up to this point. You cannot undo the past and the relationships you shared, and expect to forge a sexual, husband relationship with your ex-wife's son that is both accepting and natural.
You are old enough to be his father... and ironically, you were.
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I am in agreement with the 3 posts above. This will cause alot of heartache for everyone involved, especially you ex-wife and her son who is only 18 years old - he's a baby. Your role as his father was to protect him from harm. This relatinship will undo all that, and bring lots of pain to his life - it could have dramatic effects on the relationships with his family members, friends and most importantly his mother. As a mature-aged adult and his former father, you need to take responsibility and put an end to this before it ruins his life.
Sorry to be blunt.
Sorry to be blunt.
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Leave it alone. How could you even consider this? Morals and values. These days people think they can have everything they want. No matter how much you say you love this boy you need to move on. Its wrong hon.