Need some advice on a guy I am talking too!

[Centexfarmer]

yeah kat4488, I think u are right.

OH well, wasnt meant to be, maybe he had a fault i wouldnt like down the line or something.

I just gotta give it time, I'm sure i will find someone.

I'm a great guy.

You sound like a definate keeper.

Now go back and reread your thread here (and when it started), and recognize what a "PLAYER" looks like.

SilverCloud had it right. This guy was trying to cover all of his bases, but lost the Home Plate (YOU) in the process.

That's too bad. His loss NOT YOURS!

Great guys recognize their value when others don't. If he had anytime at all he would have made it for you.

Time to move on!

 

[colemanshs]

Then he just txts me back that he didn't stand me up, his grandmother passed away last night. So i ask him will I see him tonite, and he said are you kidding me, I am gonna be with my family, not you.

He might actually be grieving right now so I wouldnt dump him just yet. Id give him 5 days to a week and if he hasnt responded move on.

Honestly, if my grandmother died and the guy that I was supposed to go out with had the nerve to ask me if we were still going to go out, I would probably be pissed. Even if you were to wait 5 days or so, I'd still be pretty upset that you were only thinking about yourself instead of me and my family at a time of loss.

But at the same time, I probably would have texted you earlier to let you know what was going on. I would have apologized and told you that we'll have to reschedule for another time.

Either way, I'm not sure things are looking good. You may have better luck with someone else.

 

[najfus]

Not that it matters much- but are you really 26?

You need to find someone else. You also need to try not to be so clingy. If a guy was calling and texting me that often, I'd probably be turned off.

 

[Mattcharles]

I just need not to look for love anymore, and let it find me.
if not, ill just be alone.

and thank you centertextfarmer, that was really nice of u.