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Thank you everyone for your very diverse responses. I am still in the process of trying to understand myself and at the same time help others understand the true me. I only wish that I wouldn't have put off this mission of self-discovery until my senior year of high school. Now, I feel as if the deadline of college is fast approaching.
Basically, I want to be out to my friends and siblings before I go to college, mostly because I want to be able to be "honest" to my old and new friends on facebook. That sounds stupid, I know, but that website is actually critical for me in my coming out process.
I'm just not sure as to how to set about coming out to the rest of my friends after the first one that I have told. My two other closest friends do not seem as receptive to the idea of me being gay. In fact, after teasing me for my feminine tendencies for years, they are just starting to egg me on to "get it" with this girl and that. UGGH life is so unfortunate lol. I will get through it though.
The only people I'm not going to tell before college, ideally, are my parents and the rest of my family. They can find out later.
Basically, I want to be out to my friends and siblings before I go to college, mostly because I want to be able to be "honest" to my old and new friends on facebook. That sounds stupid, I know, but that website is actually critical for me in my coming out process.
I'm just not sure as to how to set about coming out to the rest of my friends after the first one that I have told. My two other closest friends do not seem as receptive to the idea of me being gay. In fact, after teasing me for my feminine tendencies for years, they are just starting to egg me on to "get it" with this girl and that. UGGH life is so unfortunate lol. I will get through it though.
The only people I'm not going to tell before college, ideally, are my parents and the rest of my family. They can find out later.

