The Original Gay Porn Community - Free Gay Movies and Photos, Gay Porn Site Reviews and Adult Gay Forums

  • Welcome To Just Us Boys - The World's Largest Gay Message Board Community

    In order to comply with recent US Supreme Court rulings regarding adult content, we will be making changes in the future to require that you log into your account to view adult content on the site.
    If you do not have an account, please register.
    REGISTER HERE - 100% FREE / We Will Never Sell Your Info

    To register, turn off your VPN; you can re-enable the VPN after registration. You must maintain an active email address on your account: disposable email addresses cannot be used to register.

  • Hi Guest - Did you know?
    Hot Topics is a Safe for Work (SFW) forum.

Need tips for next session

T

tylerhart

On the Prowl
Joined
Sep 28, 2004
Posts
121
Reaction score
3
Points
0
I finally got to fuck the guy that i've been wanting since last year but unfortunately the sex was kinda meh :?. Here are the problems that I felt like I really need to work on before we meet for our next session:

1.) Condoms + Lube made it too slippery?
2.) I was unable to cum until I was in a very specific position (fapping pose)
3.) I tried experimenting to find his erogenous zones and Prostate but it seems he barely feels anything.

Can I ask for more advice to make our next time more amazing? I am focused on giving him a great time but there were just some things that I am still limited at yet :/
 
The two things that are most likely coming into play are "the unfamiliar can be unerotic" and "people are different".

Condoms and lube ARE slippery, to a great extent. The implication is that you've never used them before, and so they "seem weird". The obvious solution - use them more ften so they don't seem so weird. Start masturbating with condoms and lube. Similarly, it's likely you could only reach orgasm in "fapping position" because you inadvertently set up a cause-effect in your brain. If you're like most human males, you masturbate a lot, and you probably greatly favor one position. Your brain can start thinking "sex is when I'm in this position doing this maneuver", and anything that deviates from that can confuse it. Again, the key is to mix things up. Start masturbating in different positions - face up, face down, sitting up, hands and knees, what have you. You don't have to finish a new way each time, but mix it up enough that your brain opens up a bit.

As far as making him feel good, ask for feedback. Don't assume that "fucking him like I saw in that porn video" will automatically make him go wild. It might, sure, but it might not. People are built differently and wired differently. So take some time to explore each other. Try some stuff out. Be tender, be forceful, light touch, heavy touch, here, there, everywhere.

And this is key. Stay flexible. Hot sex is whatever works for you two. I had sex with a guy once where I was positive that it would mainly involve me fucking him. Ends up the hottest part of the encounter, for both of us, was him just lying on top of me, making out, writhing against each other. So each time, that's what we did for the vast majority of the encounter. There was sone oral here and there, but mostly we just lay naked on top of each other, our mouths pressed together, my hands kneading his ass, moaning and writhing. We weren't "doing it wrong" - we were doing it right for us. And it was hot as fuck. :)
 
dude here are some of my fave things to do:p

tease that hole with your mouth and fingers until he begs you to fuck him;)

let me know how it 'cums' out*|*
 
Great tips so far. Here's one more: I'm available to practice with you. :lol:
 
Maybe you used too much lube. Some lube seems to be slippier than others, too. I think sex is better when there is a little friction, for lack of a better word. This is why I hate condoms. Skin on skin is so much better, but not everyone should do that. Maybe he is not as tight as he should be?
 
Thanks for the replies! I definitely should start practicing with a condom/lube on my own, that is one great suggestions.

@vacancy3, i love those positions and we tried most of those but I guess I have to try them out again! :p

@G-Lexington, you are right! I wasnt' acting like I was in a porn movie. I was acting more like a student exploring his body because I kept asking for feedback (but I honestly thought that was unerotic because of so many questions). I guess I'll do all suggestions and hopefully the 2nd time is the charm!
 
Don't make ithe questions sound like a survey-taker at the mall. Make them sound like a lusty partner doing what he can to drive his partner insane with sexual pleasure. And yes, kisses and carresses between the questions are an excellent way to do that. :)

Lex
 
TIL I've been conducting mall surveys the wrong way this entire time.

That explains the sexual harassment suits though. :lol:
 
One more question, is it ok for me to dry out the Condom (while wearing) so that its easier to cum? I tried the tip here and i can only manage it when its not too lubricated :/
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top