G-Lexington
Lex. Icon. Devil.
"Excuse me sir. I saw you in the store earlier, and I just wanted to tell you that I think you are really attractive. May I have your phone number so we can talk more?"
Assuming I'm still partnered, whether I find him attractive or not, I'd say "Wow, I'm utterly flattered that you'd approach me like that. And way to have the balls to do that. But I'm afraid I'm partnered. But thanks for totally making my day.
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Assuming I'm NOT partnered, whether I found him attractive or not, I'd probably say "Wow, I'm utterly flattered that you'd approach me like that. And way to have the balls to do that. I really don't give out my phone number to people I don't know. But I'd feel OK giving you my e-mail address. Would that work?"
Thing is - I've found I'm drawn more to personalities than looks. And somebody who has the cajones to approach me in that matter would be somebody I'd probably want to get to know. It doesn't mean I'd want to have sex with him (not right away), but it wouldn't hurt to see where things went.
"I just saw you in the store...and I just had to come out and tell you that I think you have a really nice ass. Is there any way we can talk more?"
I'd find this one less of a positive. "Attractive" sounds like he's sized me up. "Really nice ass" sounds like he only cares about that. I'd probably still give him the benefit of the doubt, though. Roughly the same answer if I was partnered, and roughly the same answer if I wasn't. I might be more hesitant in my responses, though.
Lex
Assuming I'm still partnered, whether I find him attractive or not, I'd say "Wow, I'm utterly flattered that you'd approach me like that. And way to have the balls to do that. But I'm afraid I'm partnered. But thanks for totally making my day.
"Assuming I'm NOT partnered, whether I found him attractive or not, I'd probably say "Wow, I'm utterly flattered that you'd approach me like that. And way to have the balls to do that. I really don't give out my phone number to people I don't know. But I'd feel OK giving you my e-mail address. Would that work?"
Thing is - I've found I'm drawn more to personalities than looks. And somebody who has the cajones to approach me in that matter would be somebody I'd probably want to get to know. It doesn't mean I'd want to have sex with him (not right away), but it wouldn't hurt to see where things went.
"I just saw you in the store...and I just had to come out and tell you that I think you have a really nice ass. Is there any way we can talk more?"
I'd find this one less of a positive. "Attractive" sounds like he's sized me up. "Really nice ass" sounds like he only cares about that. I'd probably still give him the benefit of the doubt, though. Roughly the same answer if I was partnered, and roughly the same answer if I wasn't. I might be more hesitant in my responses, though.
Lex
