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Nervous during sex.

Twisly

Twisly

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Hey guys, i am really embarrassed with what happened to me. Me and my boyfriend went to a motel yesterday for the first time.

I had no problem erecting my penis before even with my previous sexual encounter. We've been together for a month now and yesterday was our first time to have sex.

I was hard during the foreplay and the sucking part but when I was going to penetrate him, I kinda got nervous and can't get it on. I was able to get it back whenever he sucks me or give me a hand job. But when I was going to fuck him I keep on getting almost flaccid.

I was really embarrassed and I can't get it off my head!

Please give me some advices. Please!!!
 
No worries dude. Purely psychological. I'd say you just need to be a bit more comfortable with him first and relax. It's all nerves.
 
It sounds like you just wanted everything to be perfect and you were putting too much pressure on yourself. Just relax and everything will be fine.
 
Thanks guys! at least it comforts me a little.

Do you think I should I ask him about what he thinks? or doing so is a bad idea?
 
I have the same problem and have posted similar threads and questions on this board stating my difficulty in getting hard enough for anal penetration. I think the nerves get the best of me. It's very frustrating.
 
Well, Twisley and Onetimething, I had the very opposite problem when I was in my 20s, 30s and 40s. If you put me in bed with a man, I couldn't keep my cock down. I could screw his ass and it was still hard enough for penetration. I can't imagine anyone with so much anxiety he can't get it up.
 
Homoerectus said:
Well, Twisley and Onetimething, I had the very opposite problem when I was in my 20s, 30s and 40s. If you put me in bed with a man, I couldn't keep my cock down. I could screw his ass and it was still hard enough for penetration. I can't imagine anyone with so much anxiety he can't get it up.
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see... u really shouldn't post things like this.. your just gonna make him feel worse...

I have been in circumstances... where i was so nervous my dick went soft... but when i'm comfortable with a guy andI don't feel self concious around him then I have a hard on that won't go down.. even after I cum and stay hard and I'm ready for more...

Its all a matter of confidence in yourself
 
Twisly said:
Hey guys, i am really embarrassed with what happened to me. Me and my boyfriend went to a motel yesterday for the first time.
I had no problem erecting my penis before even with my previous sexual encounter. We've been together for a month now and yesterday was our first time to have sex.
I was hard during the foreplay and the sucking part but when I was going to penetrate him, I kinda got nervous and can't get it on. I was able to get it back whenever he sucks me or give me a hand job. But when I was going to fuck him I keep on getting almost flaccid.
I was really embarrassed and I can't get it off my head!
Please give me some advices. Please!!!
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I totaly understand you on this on. While I was dating a young hottie, just turned 18. I did the same thing. I couldn't figure it out. We tried many times.
He started calling me limpy.
But after I figured out that it was just me being nervous, I took him by suprize one night and he got what he deserved. (*U*) (!w!)
 
Twisly said:
Thanks guys! at least it comforts me a little.

Do you think I should I ask him about what he thinks? or doing so is a bad idea?
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If I were you, I would simply tell him that I felt embarrassed by what happened and that I thought that maybe nerves were a primary factor. There's a good chance that he will say something that will alleviate your fears and anxiety.
 
this has happened to all of us. it IS nerves. we all want to show we can perform (which is a stupid word to use) and it can psych one out
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NYGACU said:
If I were you, I would simply tell him that I felt embarrassed by what happened and that I thought that maybe nerves were a primary factor. There's a good chance that he will say something that will alleviate your fears and anxiety.
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im actually considering this. im ust waiting for the right moment.

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thank you guys!
 
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