New here, curious again!

[camdaddytn]

New to JUB I am straight, married. But back in college I had some experiences with a roomate ove rteh course of sophmore year. It was fun, but it was what it was. Never did anything again. I get "curious" now and again, but lately I am REALLY craving guy on guy again, but Craigslist seems unsafe to say the least, lol.

I know, stereotypical "straight/bi/curious" guy, but what have other "curious" guys done?

Thanks

 

[sixthson]

Give some thought to your wife.

 

[PoppaJunk]

Fair warning: on this site, even though its a sexual site and a bi forum, you will get a few immediate "dump the wife!" while at the same time a strong defense of marriage. Then they'll call YOU a sexual weirdo for wanting to play with guys. Yeah, strange huh? Its really the gay guys who jump into this forum to play morality police to feel better about themselves, and I wish it was more moderated for that BS. So just a heads up for ya.....

Yes CL is a shady place. Also if you decide to do any guy/guy stuff, because you're married, dont do random hookups. Thats dangerous. Better to find a safe, fellow married bi curious guy for a monogamous FWB type thing. Trust me, there's lots of us out there (I'm finding out) that are looking for the same thing.

 

[Cormac135]

Best of luck in your search for cock, don't forget to wrap up.

See if the old ladies up for a threeway.

Welcome to JUB.

 

[camdaddytn]

Thanks, I lurked long enough to kinda expect that, lol. Believe me Im looking for another married/curious fwb thing.

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Best of luck in your search for cock, don't forget to wrap up.

See if the old ladies up for a threeway.

Welcome to JUB.

Thanks, I doubt the threeway is an option, lol. Always wrap it up!

 

[sixthson]

Fair warning: on this site, even though its a sexual site and a bi forum, you will get a few immediate "dump the wife!" while at the same time a strong defense of marriage. Then they'll call YOU a sexual weirdo for wanting to play with guys. Yeah, strange huh? Its really the gay guys who jump into this forum to play morality police to feel better about themselves, and I wish it was more moderated for that BS. So just a heads up for ya.....

You wanna see my night stick?

It's gay guys like me who encourage others to be honest about who they are and not hide behind some ambiguous label like "curious", while still playing happy hubby until the wifey isn't looking.

Besides, you can't really call yourselves curious when you've already had gay sex, can you? It starts with being honest with yourself, then with others.

 

[camdaddytn]

I agree, somewhat. Labels being what they are and all. I would prob say I'm "Bi". But yes, I ve been happily straight since college, but things change, people change. Not trying to incite any "hate" or anything, just looking around, but your, and everyone's opinion is valid.

 

[PoppaJunk]

Thanks, I lurked long enough to kinda expect that, lol.

Good. I dont even engage in discussion with them anymore, suggest you dont either, you'll just get wrapped around the axle. Soon as I realized it was the 'ol "pot calling the kettle black" and/or "eat their own" kinda thing I gave up trying to talk. I just warn the new people when I see them come in

 

[danny142]

I feel like I fit the curious mold, and all I've done is get a bj from a guy. I wouldn't mind that changing though so I could get a better grasp on where I actually stand on all this lol.

 

[camdaddytn]

Good. I dont even engage in discussion with them anymore, suggest you dont either, you'll just get wrapped around the axle. Soon as I realized it was the 'ol "pot calling the kettle black" and/or "eat their own" kinda thing I gave up trying to talk. I just warn the new people when I see them come in

Thanks I appreciat eit

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I feel like I fit the curious mold, and all I've done is get a bj from a guy. I wouldn't mind that changing though so I could get a better grasp on where I actually stand on all this lol.

Same here!

 

[nicecock6699]

New to JUB I am straight, married. But back in college I had some experiences with a roomate ove rteh course of sophmore year. It was fun, but it was what it was. Never did anything again. I get "curious" now and again, but lately I am REALLY craving guy on guy again, but Craigslist seems unsafe to say the least, lol.

I know, stereotypical "straight/bi/curious" guy, but what have other "curious" guys done?

Thanks

Hi! it is really nice that you wanted to explore more about your sexuality. What did you do with your roomate? How far did you go?

 

[camdaddytn]

Hi! it is really nice that you wanted to explore more about your sexuality. What did you do with your roomate? How far did you go?

Started with some drunken, mutual j/o. Then went on and progressed to oral, massage. Some frot (way fuckcing hot) , some fingering

 

[BiMike]

I agree just an opportunity to touch his cock he would want to stop !

 

[62624rd]

Do'nt worry about labels..just know yourself. i am like you in a way. When i was in college my roommate and i had a three month thing. It was fun while it lasted. It has been thirthy years now and i haven't been with another guy but the thought has cross my mind a couple of times; i have not acted on it. But i still see myself as curious. Maybe someday i will play again

 

[cuteguyincali]

New to JUB I am straight, married. But back in college I had some experiences with a roomate ove rteh course of sophmore year. It was fun, but it was what it was. Never did anything again. I get "curious" now and again, but lately I am REALLY craving guy on guy again, but Craigslist seems unsafe to say the least, lol.

I know, stereotypical "straight/bi/curious" guy, but what have other "curious" guys done?

Thanks

You are a splitting image of me on your post (except for the college part) So many of us out there.

 

[curiouslittledick]

I am in the same boat you are in. I am in my 50's and was with a guy in high school and another in college. I still remember it like it was yesterday, from the feel of the dicks in my mouth to the taste of their cum to the feel of them inside of my ass.

I have led a straight life and my wife has never known about those experiences, would never understand and has become so conservative and frigid and also has no idea that I crave to be with another man again.

 

[Jackwanker]

I"m 50 married for 25 years, and have never been with a guy. I've had the cravings to be with a guy for many years, most recently that urge has went into overdrive. She would never understand and I'm confused myself. I don't feel like i'm taking care of her needs. In the same aspect we don't have sex like we did, it is almost like she doesn't want it anymore. She never initiates it and when I try she turns away. I know i need help.

 

[ballcaphair]

I"m 50 married for 25 years, and have never been with a guy. I've had the cravings to be with a guy for many years, most recently that urge has went into overdrive. She would never understand and I'm confused myself. I don't feel like i'm taking care of her needs. In the same aspect we don't have sex like we did, it is almost like she doesn't want it anymore. She never initiates it and when I try she turns away. I know i need help.

Jack, It is important to remember that you are a male; we are males. Some of us are gay, some bi, some curious, and some confused, too. With that in mind, we are all on a gay website where we can talk and share and hopefully help one another. I believe that the male sex drive is awesome and powerful and that few females have this kind of physical drive. We are men and we have men's needs and desires. I just want you to know that you and me, we have a lot in common because there's a huge backstory to having a cock.

 

[Ironpyrites]

I used to have sex with a friend I worked with on and off for years when I was in my mid 20's we used to have girlfriends and used to have threesomes with one of his, she didn't know we were Bi and I used to help him out when DP-ing her she never knew. Since then have hardly met any guy I want to have sex with again, I like a very specific type and they are rare.

 

[MikeHere]

So how do you safely meet guys now?