New here! I've got a dilemma...

[TYRONEtheTREX]

Hey guys, long time reader, first time poster!

Anyways, I have recently just gotten into a relationship. He's super nice, sweet, kind, courteous, etc. Although, I have found myself not being sexually attracted to him. I'm kind of stuck in a rut here. I don't want to sound shallow, because I'm really not, but I just need some advice. I felt like you guys would be the best people to help me out!

 

[fetaby]

Sex is an integral part of the relationship. What you have is a pseudo-relationship. Examine what you want, can this guy give you that?


If there was ever a thing to be unwillingly stubborn about it is your own happiness. Never compromise on what you feel you deserve.

 

[JasunStrikesBack]

Sounds like he's a fuck buddy. not such a bad thing.

 

[CumAlong]

not liking someone because of looks isn't shallow. Physical attraction is extremely important in a relationship.

Decide if its worth keeping him for his good qualities, or if you want someone you can be physically attracted to.

Everyone has someone they are attracted to, and its NOT shallow to care about looks.

 

[fetaby]

Sounds like he's a fuck buddy. not such a bad thing.

Close but not quite, sounds like he's an everything BUT fuck buddy.

 

[JasunStrikesBack]

OK then.. you've got a gay best friend. Even better.

 

[freefall]

Just say you like him but not more than a best friend. Improvise the rest.

 

[jamie_01930]

if there is no chemisrty, well good luck

 

[jamie_01930]

What has JUB done for you

for me it helped me see what i was denying
it helped me come out late in life
it helped me while going through a divocrce
it has helped me understand the gay world more
it has given me a reason to stick around in life
it has helped be understand who or what I really was
and i'm sure there are more but this is a good start

 

[braex27]

I would speak to him as soon as possible and end before he invests too much of himself in this relationship which you know is going nowhere. He sounds like a really nice guy so the last thing you want to do is hurt him.

 

[bulge]

Hey guys, long time reader, first time poster!

Anyways, I have recently just gotten into a relationship. He's super nice, sweet, kind, courteous, etc. Although, I have found myself not being sexually attracted to him. I'm kind of stuck in a rut here. I don't want to sound shallow, because I'm really not, but I just need some advice. I felt like you guys would be the best people to help me out!

Most men are in your case. It never matches 100%. I live with a fuck buddy, but we both know we will never be anything more than fuck buddies. We never go romantically heavenly high, though we care about each other. In the meantime we even grew quite brotherly. One thing is deeply annoying with him: he is not a totally kinky fetishist like me. He is even strongly against it. He only knows sex in the most biblical sense, but there is one great compensation: he has one great utterly male fuck ass (extreme bubble butt with the deepest of crevices; the very first requirement for a guy) always craving for my dick and always duly presenting as men ought to.

 

[TYRONEtheTREX]

Hey, thanks guys, I think I'm just going to play it day by day and just see what happens.



Thanks.