I can tell you where even I (who didn't get lost in the socialization line of thought) was off-put by this explanation-- and it was probably just your use of example more than anything else--- was that when you started talking about the number of stamens and what not, my immediate thought was since gay men don't grow breasts or develop ovaries, I am not certain how the comparison was parallel.
Not being dense or nitpicking, I'm just saying that in humans when you refer to feminization unless you are strictly referring to gender attraction and no other factor whatsoever, it's difficult to avoid the socialization aspect--- and even gender attraction is something society attempts to massively to influence socially that even that is something difficult to completely isolate as a purely genetic switch or biological lever.
I actually don't believe in a gay/straight lever, I believe in a scale, and I believe we are in many cases more straight than we might have been 'naturally' because of massive social pressures and conditioning.
Stamens is one way it manifests in flowers. They're not very complicated, so there really aren't many ways it can be manifested. The only point was that it happens even in plants, to illustrate that "feminization" is a common scientific term.
Gender attraction is the only thing "feminization" refers to. Remember, we're not actually talking about human beings here, we're talking about strands of chemicals found in the nuclei of cells. Feminization isn't something that happens to an organism, it's something happening to a gene or, more likely, a set of genes. Anything about that is how feminization is manifested, not the feminization itself.
So far the evidence doesn't point to whether this is a purely binary operation or not, although it does (strongly, IMO) suggest that it's a spectrum either in the number of genes involved or in how many "settings" a single gene has (or a combination).
On a different angle: I find it a bit unnerving that they could manipulate the orientation of mice. Some people will look at that and decide there must be a medical "gay cure".
Plus ça change...
But resources in the environment do affect the likelihood of many genes to come into play, including homosexuality. Ask biologists and zoologists and marine biologists what you begin to see in mammals in enclosed populations or in large herds where getting food or further breeding becomes liability. I know specifically with dogs and dolphins this has been observed. I do not disagree that at least in humans, sexual orientation becomes "set", we don't shift back and forth between hetero and homosexual based on what season it is or how good the time of year is for breeding or anything else. But I do believe many factors outside of our own personal genetic makeup influence the likelihood of many genes emerging-- whether they control sexuality or family diseases or weight or anything else.
Sure, but that's not involved here. The only thing we're looking at really is cells in a womb, and from the people who've studied this it appears it's only one environmental factor: hormones.
That exterior influences can 'flip' genes is well established. I'm afflicted with a result of that: thanks to some traumatic crap, a gene that was latent in my makeup got switched on, and left me bipolar. Then one (or more) of the meds I'm taking kicked in a hereditary arthritis about fifteen or twenty years before the doctors expected.
Sometimes they can get kicked back where they were. For example, the doctors keep telling me that if I can live in a supportive, secure, positive environment for a half-dozen years, the bipolar gene could kick back to latent (I thought I was on my way to that, but thanks to certain bankers, the world stopped being nearly so secure or positive).
There are also genes that can flip in response to certain heavy poisons; I don't recall anything about that except that it has been observed. And in some cases, people who experience a truly terrifying event can in fact lose the color in their hair, which is a matter of the genes for color shutting down.