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Newbie needs help with struggle

I wouldn't have sex with a teacher/professor. Bad idea for you. Bad career move for him.

No.

P.S.--Congrats on coming out to your family! (*8*)
 
Thanks.

I already said that I don't mind to do it with him, but I won't do it. The only thing I'm asking is what to say when I see and talk to him. Ignoring him only makes it only harder for both of us.

Man... I realy hoped that this wouldn't happen in my life but stayed only in my dreams.
 
Don't overthink this. And don't lie. Just tell him "I'm really flattered you're interested, but I'm afraid the feelings aren't returned. I'm sorry." And leave it at that.

Lex
 
Just be honest with him.

And if you want him as a friend, tell him that.
 
Ok, thank you for all your support. I'm going to tell him that I do like him as a friend but don't stronger feelings for him. I'm not going to say that I'm bi, nether straight or gay.

Hopefully he'll take it in a good way. He's a good person and I don't want to end a good time of conversations with him. Fingers crossed.
 
Well I went to school and on my way to my first lesson I saw him talking to one of his colleagues in the central hall. I knew he had seen me but he did like I wasn't there. Maybe because I was with some friends/classmates.

When the lesson started I I often saw him walking along the classroom and felt that he was looking at me. I couldn't take it anymore of this (and because of planning this thing out since it happend yesterday) and walked out of the classroom. When I went on the hallway and spoke to him if we can talk in private.

We went to an empty classroom and we talked about a half ( ! ) hour. Before I could say anything he started to tell me that he made a big mistake of telling me his feelings for me. That it was stupid of him and that he sink through the ground. He almost cried when saying that. I was speechless.

He then told me that if I would like to have a relationship with him, he would find another school to work in just for me. So that our relationship doesn't interfere my progress at this school. He said it will be hard but he's willing to do it for me.

Then he stopped talking and I knew that it was my turn to talk but with all the things he said I just couldn't find the right words that fast. So there was a short silence.

He than looked at my face and he could see that I had a bad time to find the right words. He hesitated for a moment and than said: "You're not gay are you? Shit I thought I had it right. Sorry about this. I deeply am."

After that he wanted to leave, but I stopped him when he wanted to open the door. I asked him if he was serious about the love he feels for me. He said that he wasn't joking about this. Because I felted sorry for him, I told him that I do like him for who he is and don't want to lose him as a friend for this misunderstanding. He smiled, walked to me. Standing in front of me he asked that if I'm gay and to be honest about it. I answered him that I'm bi. He smiled again and hugged ( ! ) me. While hugging me he said that he knew I liked to watch guys and that he wanted to help me with problems when it comes to guys.

He let go and left. I went back to the classroom with an angry teacher waiting. He wanted to know why I left without telling him for half an hour. I told him that went to the toilets and on my way back I've helped one of the firstclass with a problem. (That happens a lot at my school.) He muttered something and I went to my seat.

Pfffew... this was a weird day at school.
 
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