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This is going to sound a little weird, but this is my story.

About three years ago, a friend of mine who had been hitting on me for ages sent me a dick pic. To be clear, up until this point, I was extremely straight, and was completely shocked by what I saw. We didn't talk for a couple of days and he asked me if he'd upset me, I said no. We started talking again and he asked me if I was curious, and I jokingly said sure, why not. I'm dating my current gf at this point, but I gave in and went to his place. I was shaking like a leaf, but he was totally cool, and when his cock popped out it felt totally natural. I wolfed him down and loved it. Flash forward and two months and he's fucking me regularly, flash forward another two months and I've created a Grindr. I went from normal jock to total bottom -- but I still love and am dating my gf. This story has a lot more to it, but I'm running out and will update later.

I came out to her as "bi," even though I'm pretty sure I'm gay, and my friends have been very accepting. It's been difficult with her. I've since had tons of cock, but it all feels very new and weird to me. I was wondering if there were any other former-straight guys out there who got turned out, and if we could be bros.

I do feel a little alone. Oh, and I'm 6'4, 210, 7+ with a big ass if you're wondering.
 
Congrats on coming to the discovery man. I can't say it was a huge discovery for me because I starting finding dudes attractive when I was in middle school, but didn't come out to people close to me until recently. Not a lot of people can tell I'm gay until I tell them because I guess I generally come across as straight. Like you I told myself I was bi for a while but eventually realized I was into fucking around with guys way too much to not be gay haha.

Even so, maybe for you it was always in there somewhere but you just didn't give it much thought until the opportunity presented itself. I don't want to judge your situation, but does your girl know you're seeing guys too? I'd imagine it's difficult living the double life, but seems you're getting more comfortable with your feelings toward dudes.

Bottom line, keep running on this journey of self discovery. You seem pretty self aware so you'll figure out what you want in time. If you ever need a bud to talk to, feel free to DM me.
 
Totally dude, get at me. I'm totally into my conversion. My libido is through the roof, I'm at the gym constantly and I can only jerk off to gay stuff anymore -- and I fucking love it. I kinda think the whole world should be like this, but I'm still getting used to it. I mean, going from being an alpha straight guy to a beta cock lover is... jarring lol
 
Tried sending you a DM but doesn't look like you have your preferences set up to receive them. Regarding you last post though, I agree. It's crazy how sexually charged you can get sometimes, but I think that's just guys being guys haha. It is pretty crazy how quick you switched gears. It's awesome, it seems like you're really getting the most out of it. And I'm sure the dudes you're hooking up with are loving it too. Fuck, it's probably because you withheld for so long that you're experiencing some sort of sexual awakening.
 
Wait lol how do i set up DM's? And yeah... it actually started kinda slow but once my cock interest ramped up, it never stopped and just took over.
 
From the way you’re telling it, I can relate! When I was younger, I totally saw myself as straight. In retrospect I did have some urges, but I denied them. Then, when I finally gave myself permission to be with a guy, WOW! I’ve been 100% into dick ever since— and my only regret is that I didn’t do it sooner.

I did identify as bi at first, but after a few years, I realized I hadn’t been with a girl in so long and had no desire to ever be with one again. That’s when I started to identify as gay. But that’s a deeply personal decision, so you have to do what’s right for you.

Btw, that friend of yours must’ve seen something in you. I had a similar experience: when I came out, my closest friends’ reactions were basically “I knew it!” They’d apparently seen something in me that I hadn’t seen myself.

Anyway, once you have your DM’s set up, feel free to message me too.
 
thunderer said:
Wait lol how do i set up DM's? And yeah... it actually started kinda slow but once my cock interest ramped up, it never stopped and just took over.
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Hey bud, you can do this by clicking on your Settings at the top of the page. Then once you're in Settings, click on General Settings on the right side toolbar. After that scroll down to Private Messaging and turn it on. Hope that helped lol.
 
Wow, you guys are great! And i'm sure you're both hot. Bottoms? I'm a bottom, and I love a big fat cock. I still can't get my DM to work, but my snap is illinestbboy. Add me!
 
Hey man, I just wanted to touch base since it seemed like you hadn’t posted anything in a while. (I know you’re new to JUB and all, but you did seem pretty active for a while there! Btw, I also tried DM’ing you but it still wouldn’t go through. If you want to message me on snap, my username is the same as it is on here... just be aware I don’t check it as much.)

Anyway, I hope all is well. I know things must be complicated if you have a girlfriend, which is part of the reason why I wanted to reach out. Let me know if you want to chat!
 
I hope you've broken off with the girlfriend.
When you started, did she think this was a serious relationship? If so, it clearly doesn't matter to you any longer, and it sounds as though you're caught up in your sexuality. That's all well and good, but do the right thing, and tell her you've discovered you prefer guys, because you're certainly not serious about her - from reading between the lines.
There's no need to live a secret life if you've gone gay. Honesty goes a very long way towards giving a person a choice to leave you if they want to. She should know, so that she can make an informed choice. If you're not giving that to her, you're creating some very bad karma. And it will come back on you - and sooner than you think. So, I hope you've had "The Talk."
 
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