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I never understood the usage of female pronouns when talking about other men.

Does anyone know if lesbians use male pronouns when talking about other women?
 
Not from any I know. I hear beautiful, hot, and amazing. An occasional "she rocks" but that's it. However, I only hear the term pretty towards a guy when it's being used to describe him as being full of himself. But then again, aren't most pronouns unisex when describing a guy or a girl?
 
gsdx said:
I never understood the usage of female pronouns when talking about other men.

Does anyone know if lesbians use male pronouns when talking about other women?
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Some men are pretty.

And some women are handsome.

I don't know how many lesbians use male pronouns when talking about women, but some of them use strap-ons when having sex with women -- that's a pretty male thing. ;)
 
joeslifeyork said:
Male thing to use a strap on? Nah.. i prefer to use the god given knob between my legs thanks.
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I didn't mean that using a strap-in is a male thing to do!

I meant that a strap-on is a male thing in that the penis that it pretends to be is a male thing.
 
This style is probably used less frequently than formerly, but in an era of rigidly defined gender roles many gay men assumed that since they weren't straight they must be feminine. This led to more gay men expressing their 'otherness' through drag, cross-dressing and general 'swish' than you might expect nowadays.

Some men appeared to be channelling their mothers, while others aspired to a glamorous bitchy divanity very far removed from any expression of femininity you might encounter in the real world. I suspect it is the desire to reinforce and identify with a feminine persona that leads to this pronoun choice. Gender-fuck pronouns say more about the speaker's self-perception than they comment on the gender of the person referred to.

It is not at all uncommon to hear macho types in all-male society (rugby clubs, pubs, the workplace) address their mates as 'girls' - "For fuck's sake will you girls stop bickering and just get on with it" " Don't be such a girl, Barry!". The implication is that the behaviour commented on is inappropriately unmanly. The comment establishes a pecking order by questioning the masculinity of the addressee while simultaneously elevating the masculinity of the speaker.
 
NickCole said:
I would classify both of them as pretty.

I think of pretty as being feminine features.

To me, a handsome man is someone with strong masculine features, not a cute pert nose, shaped eyebrows, tinted hair carefully styled with hair goo, etc.
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No, the second one was pretty at fifteen, the other one will directly go from pretty to rotten skipping the handsome part.
 
Yeah I have always disliked being called a Queen. I try not to let it bother me too much. It cant be helped.
 
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