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Says the guy who has a trick flake and blames it on all young people's manners.
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No show and no courtesy. Why??
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Says the guy who has a trick flake and blames it on all young people's manners.
Willie Boy
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Good question.
To the OP, I'm guessing he saw you and decided you weren't what he was led to believe.
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I agree with this.
I also agree with this. It sucks, but that's the way people are at times, especially for hook-ups.
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Maybe he lives in Atlanta and had to spend two days living in a school building because of an inch of snow.
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I'm glad to see you are a supporter of the Texas Basketball Association for Teens.
Most people have never even heard of it.
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This.
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johaninsc
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I've had young guys not show up and not call for a job interview. The last thing I'd expect is manners for a random, anonymous fuckfest.
^ and for the above giff, ewww! I'm trying to eat my breakfast!
^ and for the above giff, ewww! I'm trying to eat my breakfast!
Who the hell made that cake?
Wasn't those Christian bakers was it?.......................those bastards........
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maybe a internt folk wanna slides ons a nice folk hole ready ans stuffins wens meets a ups folks wot alls enjoys there veges
world ova
ans theere go
thankyou
world ova
ans theere go
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piano1
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"Cold feet". Have several conversations with someone before meeting them in person. Doing the "dating line" here in Philly and there are a lot of "game players" on the line. Found a few nice guys and I'm very selective who I have sex with.
borg69unimatrix
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My take on it is, when you guys were just texting, you weren't 'real' to him... you were just words on a screen that probably gave him some comfort, and boosted his ego a little, having fun flirting and being suggestive.
Once the date was set (probably in the heat of the moment), you suddenly became VERY real, and all that boasting going on in the flirty text he suddenly had to live up to and attempt to justify himself with.
Guys really are insecure creatures whom for all their bravado, they traditionally only go for a sure thing where THEY feel secure, don't take risks, and severely need their ego's stroked more than their cocks.
I think as long as it was fantasy for him, he was fine... but once it became REAL, and he'd be on the spot in any way, he freaked.
Once the date was set (probably in the heat of the moment), you suddenly became VERY real, and all that boasting going on in the flirty text he suddenly had to live up to and attempt to justify himself with.
Guys really are insecure creatures whom for all their bravado, they traditionally only go for a sure thing where THEY feel secure, don't take risks, and severely need their ego's stroked more than their cocks.
I think as long as it was fantasy for him, he was fine... but once it became REAL, and he'd be on the spot in any way, he freaked.
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If I was lookin' and I saw your picture...and we communicated and agreed to meet...and you communicated like a good and cool guy to me, I would be crazy to turn down the initial date. You would be just my type, especially back-in-the-day. But what is this "older generation stuff" in this-here thread, as relating to you??? I saw a couple posts referring to that...I certainly don't put you into the older generation. That's reserved for people like myself.
And back in the day when I "was really cruisy and all that" I don't remember turning down dates or flaking or chickening out. My reference to "45 years ago" has relevance, because I started a little bit earlier than that. Flaking-out was certainly not less common in those days, because the entire status of doing anything intimate and gay was so much different back then, it was always very secretive and closeted...it was still considered by the medical community to be a MENTAL ILLNESS. (My hunch, and somebody older will need to confirm or deny this, is that it probably wasn't that much earlier that somebody being discovered to be gay was grounds enough to involuntarily commit them to a mental hospital???) That didn't change until the middle 1970's when the American Psychiatric Association took it off their list of mental illness diagnoses.
But, yes, I do find myself asking "WHY would somebody refuse to meet with you, after planning it?" Just strange to me, even if the mechanism is ENTIRELY different nowadays. 45 years ago (I'll use that again), the only possible way to meet with a stranger in real time was either for somebody to set you up with a blind date, or you'd go to a cruise spot or a gay bar. [OR, third and much less likely, an entirely random situation, such as just happening to stand next to each other in a movie queue and conversing, could lead to something. But again not as likely back then.]
There were probably sex phone lines and possibly ads back in those days, but of course they were always in print publications, and in those days such publications were exclusively limited to MAJOR metropolitan areas, as well as geographically limited - probably no such print media existed anywhere between Chicago and Los Angeles, unless perhaps in Denver or Minneapolis.
A friend in Detroit, back in the 1970's, used to get on the phone and call some strange number which he called the "pipeline" and it was some kind of phone PARTY LINE or something. (Most of you will need to Google "Telephone Party Line.") Gay guys would come in, and go away and others would come in, at random, and guys met each other that way. Does anybody know about this type of thing? Obviously this is archaic and likely hasn't existed in at least 30 or more years.
It was so closeted back then, that it was a full two years before my first encounter with ANY kind of gay porn, which I would have very much welcomed at any time.
And back in the day when I "was really cruisy and all that" I don't remember turning down dates or flaking or chickening out. My reference to "45 years ago" has relevance, because I started a little bit earlier than that. Flaking-out was certainly not less common in those days, because the entire status of doing anything intimate and gay was so much different back then, it was always very secretive and closeted...it was still considered by the medical community to be a MENTAL ILLNESS. (My hunch, and somebody older will need to confirm or deny this, is that it probably wasn't that much earlier that somebody being discovered to be gay was grounds enough to involuntarily commit them to a mental hospital???) That didn't change until the middle 1970's when the American Psychiatric Association took it off their list of mental illness diagnoses.
But, yes, I do find myself asking "WHY would somebody refuse to meet with you, after planning it?" Just strange to me, even if the mechanism is ENTIRELY different nowadays. 45 years ago (I'll use that again), the only possible way to meet with a stranger in real time was either for somebody to set you up with a blind date, or you'd go to a cruise spot or a gay bar. [OR, third and much less likely, an entirely random situation, such as just happening to stand next to each other in a movie queue and conversing, could lead to something. But again not as likely back then.]
There were probably sex phone lines and possibly ads back in those days, but of course they were always in print publications, and in those days such publications were exclusively limited to MAJOR metropolitan areas, as well as geographically limited - probably no such print media existed anywhere between Chicago and Los Angeles, unless perhaps in Denver or Minneapolis.
A friend in Detroit, back in the 1970's, used to get on the phone and call some strange number which he called the "pipeline" and it was some kind of phone PARTY LINE or something. (Most of you will need to Google "Telephone Party Line.") Gay guys would come in, and go away and others would come in, at random, and guys met each other that way. Does anybody know about this type of thing? Obviously this is archaic and likely hasn't existed in at least 30 or more years.
It was so closeted back then, that it was a full two years before my first encounter with ANY kind of gay porn, which I would have very much welcomed at any time.
Online interaction very often stays on line. Getting it transferred into the real world is often a failure in itself. Too easy just to flake behind a screen. Maybe next time arrange to meet after a minimum of screen interaction so you don't get the "buildup bullcrap expectation" thing only to find out it doesn't exist off screen.
Or if you do try to meet this way have a backup plan so you don't miss a beat..."no show?" no problem...Plan B....
(Is there a Plan C? Um..no)
Willie Boy
BOO!!! Mwahahahaha!!!!!
That guy in the background of your GIF looks a bit like Josh Hutcherson!
Rickrock
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I agree with borg69unimatrix that he probably freaked out when it became real instead of a fantasy. He may have been afraid that if he communicated with you, you would have coerced him into meeting with you and he was afraid. He may also have been embarrassed about going back on his word and didn't want to face your reply.