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Normal Behavior for a boy?

Totally, it's funny because I love having sex with women, and I haven't had 'real sex' with men at all but when i was younger i remember about the age of 12 playing around with my friend and we would always play with each others cocks...suck on them and even play with each other's assholes. The thing was we were just having fun cause we were curious i guess. That's the only gay experience i've ever had. Since then ive grown up and only messed around with women. I've only had sex with women. Now i'm curious what a Real Cock would taste like i my mouth...or ass.

And Chance...i know what youmean about the locker rooms. I love to do the same thing. I think i'm still exploring my sexuality...and probably always will be.

Live is having fun...so let's have it.
 
Yep! and for Gay men, too!
It's quite normal and common.:D

I grew up in the 1950's in rural new england with a very large population of conservative church people. The culture of the place really repressed sex and especially homosexuality. Kids wanted to experiment and explore and "do it" but were afraid, scared out of their witts by the repressiveness, judgementalness, and possibility of social ostracization by the ignorant and hateful. It's sad, and left us very inhibited and confused and homophobic. Of course that didn't stop us from having our clandestine little trysts to experiment with sex, it just severely limited their number and duration and made us live in terrible fear of discovery and exposure. This was one reason all Hell broke loose in the 60's.

Imagine being a Queer that is too homophobic to accept and face who and what you are. That was me and many of us back then. The crazy things it drove us to do, and the things we missed because of it.

You younger men are more fortunate to have grown up with greater freedom and clarity about your identity and orientation. Not that things were or now are perfect, just a bit better and less damaging.

Sometimes I wonder if my interest in playing with men sexually, playing with their equipment, for long periods of time isn't the result of this deprevation in my childhood and youth. Foreplay is a very normal thing, and is to be enjoyed. I'm so happy to do it with a partner, however, I forget it's just the foreplay and there's a lot more and better intimacy to come. Fortunately, I've been with kind guys who like it and can gently guide me on when they feel the need to move on to the next delight on the menu.

By the way, the Psychologists and sexologists who study children's and youth's sexual behavior will tell you "Body Geography" it is part of normal psychosexual development for all children regardless of orientation, to be curious in and participative about this stuff.

If you were fortunate enough to have it, be thankful!

If somehow you missed out on it then, don't worry about it, just enjoy and make the best of what you've got now.

If you need it, find appropriate partners who will help you explore, so you can get on with your life, be happy, and move beyond it, or at least a major concern about it.:D
 
As teenagers, my friends and cousins and I would play around together whenever the opportunity presented itself....when camping in the woods, swimming at the lake, at home alone, or in the privacy of one of our bedrooms....

The comfort levels increased the more I was with someone....from showing our cocks to each other, getting hard to see who was bigger, skinny dipping, etc., to jerking off together, having contests to see who could blow their load the quickest, etc....to jerking each other off and sucking each other's cocks....

Our excuse or explanation was that we were simply "practicing" for when we were with our girlfriends, and that "practice" didn't make a person gay, since he was improving his performance to satisfy his girl...

We were all learning about sex and sexuality, but didn't want to be embarassed...so what better way to be better at sex than to practice with people that you knew that you could trust....guys in the same situation....and, didn't your parents always tell you that practice makes perfect??
 
I was playpals with a couple of kids who were brothers. I was like 12, they were like 11 & 9. We had a fort we built out in the woods & would get naked together, experiment, mostly innocent boy curiosity kinda stuff.

Well, since i was the oldest, I went through puberty first. At the age of 13 another friend taught me how to jack off. the next time after that that I was with the 2 brothers I showed them what I had learned. They were amazed! Both by how big my cock had grown, & the fact that I could shoot this white stuff outta my dick.

Well, everytime after that that we got together, the brothers wanted to see me shoot my stuff. I think they were a little jealous cuz I could shoot cum & they couldn't (yet). At first I was glad to let them watch me jack off. At that point I was jacking off about 5 times a day anyway, so why not?

But after a while I started feeling like some kind of circus pony show, them wanting me to perform everytime we got together. Sure, I'm jacking off all the time anyway, but the feeling of having to perform on command just felt a little wierd.

So I quite hanging around the brothers. By then I was in high school & had a whole new set of jack off buddies.

PS The most memorable thing about these guys is the older brother was the first guy I ever fucked in the ass.
 
Racrboi, you should have taught your friends how to jerk you off, "practicing" for when they have reached puberty and are able to do the same for themselves...

Or, at least get them naked and playing with themselves while you were jerking off for them...
 
i can remember fighting with my best friend at the time naked on our lawn over who got to use the toilet first, but i was only about 6, can't remember why we were naked. nice memories, he's quite cute now too
 
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