Not attracted to femenine gays.

[Cubanboi]

This just in: If you're having sex with men, you're not masculine!

*gasp*

Speak for yourself lol. I'm into guys and I'm masculine. Wow!

 

[Cubanboi]

Why the concern with societies standards? OMG lol. Be who you are and live by your own standards. We all have our own unique tastes and who we are and are NOT attracted to is our CHOICE.
If you go for fem guys so what. If fem guys turn you off, so be it. Doesn't mean you have a personal deep rooted problem with yourself.
It means that fem just isn't your thing.

If a guy ONLY is attracted to flamboyant feminine men, I wouldn't care. Because it's his CHOICE. Remember choice????
I wouldn't knock him because I think he's missing out on what masculine men have to offer.

My goodness. Some of you guys have to just let things be.

 

[Cubanboi]

There is a difference between having a choice and having a very misinformed view on fem guys.

What would the misinformed view be exactly?

 

[Elwood]

Attraction is subjective. Cutting an entire group of people off because of a certain perception you have about them is really your loss. Isn't life to short to write off an entire group of people because of the tonality of their voice or the way they dress or walk, you classify as feminine? We all have our qualities that can be perceived or labeled but really, it encompasses who we are' It doesn't need a label or a title like "masculine" or "feminine". Really, people who use labels are just scared of what they may see in themselves. Maybe, gasp, they have a feminine quality!?

One of the best replies yet!! And he is cute to boot!!!

 

[hornyshauny]

Talk to the limp wrist, girlfriend!!!

And don't kid yourself – if you like cock, you're no 'Macho Man' either!!!

 

[Cubanboi]

Depends. What don't *you* like about "fem" guys?

The mannerisms of the feminine men I've come across simply turn me off. Nothing registered sexually for me when I've seen them.
I can give you an example of a person I met:
(I state this as an instance with ONE individual. This is NOT a generalization by any means.)

We chatted by text message and had a lot of views in common. We understood eachother's jokes and he told me that he had found me very attractive. (I hadn't seen his most recent pictures yet. I had seen his old ones and he had a boy-next-door look about him that I loved.) He told me that he didn't look that way anymore and seem rather nervous that I might lose interest when I saw his recent pictures.

When we exchanged myspace addresses, I had seen the more recent pics of him. He had now let his hair grow out which he now wore in styles typically worn by females. His clothing turned me off. The way that he posed with his gal pals turned me off and I was just really dissapointed. He'd even taken a picture with two girls and because of the way they all posed, I actually had to scan the picture for a while to figure out which one was him.

Also, we got up the nerve to speak to each other on the phone. He sounded like a female. Actually, he sounded like a woman with an attitude. And he wasn't even angry! I knew that he had a deep voice because I could somewhat hear it but it sounded like he was trying to get rid of it or mask it by raising his voice to a female pitch. It was a turn off.

I felt badly because he told me that he thought that I sounded sexy and I couldn't return the compliment.
I've had expeiences where I was told that I wasn't someone's type and I did not in ANY way feel good about telling him that we could only be friends from here.

BUT, just as a feminine man is not my type, I am going to be told that I am not someone's type. Do I cry out Injustice!?
No. I respect it and MOVE ON because we all have preferences.

 

[Cubanboi]

Well...

Some guys have compared fucking a fem to fucking a woman. Some guys believe fems are a disgrace and are the reason gays have a bad reputation. The OP stated the majority of gay men are fem. I had a friend who gave a fem guy dirty looks because he was too flamboyant. Funny thing was the friend was just as flamboyant.

There was one idiot that said gays are naturally feminine and needed a masculine man to balance them out. Of course, the argument didn't make any sense.

It's a misinformed view that separates "straight-acting" males from feminine males as if one group is better than the other. It's why you get threads whining about why gays aren't masculine or how fems have to be so loud and in your face.

Well if a guy has slept with a feminine man and his experience led him to feel as though he slept with a woman, that doesn't sound like a misinformed view-it sounds like HIS own personal experience. Thats what it felt like to him. I think thats where people get caught up at. You have to be able to differentiate between a person's experience and a fool who makes a hasty generalization. That is something you don't do. You don't say things like "all fems are a disgrace" or "all gays are naturaly feminine". The person who said that is totally in the wrong.

But a person who simply says feminine men do not appeal to them is simply stating his personal preference, not a misinformed view.

 

[Cubanboi]

here's a CRAAAZY idea that just hit me. if you like masculine guys, have sex with masculine guys. if you like feminine guys, have sex with feminine guys.

Thats all I'm sayin.

 

[Cubanboi]

Exhibit A:



In this thread, a hasty generalization was made and many were quick to correct it.

The argument about everyone having their own tastes in men is irrelevant to the error.

Some were quick to correct the error. MOST were quick to simply get defensive and attack someone for their personal preference.

 

[Rex]

Whoa!

First off I never expected this many replies and I wasn't trying to offend anyone so I'm sorry if I did.

I wish I had the time to reply to everyones posts but I'll just say that it's my personal preference. I'm not attracted to men who act like the opposite sex.

I don't know what else to say but I'm still taking the time to read the replies.

 

[Telstra]

Whoa!

First off I never expected this many replies and I wasn't trying to offend anyone so I'm sorry if I did.

I wish I had the time to reply to everyones posts but I'll just say that it's my personal preference. I'm not attracted to men who act like the opposite sex.

I don't know what else to say but I'm still taking the time to read the replies.

just curious,

Are you a feminine guy ?

 

[Rex]

just curious,

Are you a feminine guy ?

Nope. I noticed a lot of people said because I'm not attracted to femmes then I must be one or something along those lines. Heh... that's not always true.

I didn't realize this was a topic that is discussed here so often so if that's why people are pissed then it isn't my fault people want to discuss it so much. I'm new here and don't post that often. I hadn't logged on in a few days so it really surprised me to see all this.

I don't have anything against femme guys but I will say that a lot of them are out of the closet not because they are being brave but some just can't hide their sexuality (even though they would like to in some cases).

Like I said, I'm all for people being who they are but it's just my taste that I don't go for femmes.

An example of a gay dude that I think is attractive is Erik Rhodes, the porn star guy. I also find myself attracted to straight guys much more than gay guys but that's just me.

 

[USEDCAR]

Arabbb-Threads about Femme guys get huge replies around here


Its just funny how people get so upset at people who not attracted to femme guys. Most of yall act like its a law written in stone that you have to be attracted to femme guys. I met some nice femme guys in my life but they are just not for me. My brother Likes white girls and currently dating a white girl but im not bashing him or calling him a racist or saying hes not comfortable with his race for not being attracted to black girls its his personal preference. Whats wrong with a gay guy not being attracted to femme guys? Maybe a femme guy thats not an attention whore like...
Chris cocker
Ross the interm
The 2 femme guys on the Insider
Carson from queer eye

Then would be more respected everyone views gays as someone who wants to be a woman or who is femme. Especially when someone acts like those gentleman's


Im not ashamed of being gay or anything its just what i like, i just like Masculine guys.

 

[Telstra]

attention whore like...
Chris cocker
Ross the interm
The 2 femme guys on the Insider
Carson from queer eye

.

Maybe you watched too much of their programms. I congratulate those guys for their femme success as long as they don't do anything illegal.

 

[sabot3ur]

Funny, I feel the same way about guys who don't find feminine guys attractive.

funny, I feel the same way about guys who can't accept the preferances of others.

it's not what anyone's attracted to (or not) in this thread that disgusts me.

 

[Telstra]

*look,
this is pointless, even tho some of you guys are not attracted to a certain race or type of people what makes you so sure you can get them ?

 

[Rex]

*look,
this is pointless, even tho some of you guys are not attracted to a certain race or type of people what makes you so sure you can get them ?

Not saying that I can get them. Just not attracted to them.

 

[sunoftheskye]

Not attracted to men who can't spell feminine correctly.

 

[Telstra]

Arn't you get enough of this debate marleyisalegend ?

i understood arabbb. no point to debate anymore.

 

[Rex]

why is who you're NOT attracted to so important that it deserves a thread?? are we not going to be sensitive at all to the blacks, asian, and feminine guys who visit this site (probably scaring some of them off or making them feel inadequate or unattractive). guess noone here has ever heard of tact. you should all call your grandmothers and have them beat some tact and manners back into you

Meh... it's just a thread. If it's not important to you, don't reply to it so much.