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Just to let everyone know I'm 18 and bi. I've dated girls and i know that i like them and I physically like both guys and girls, but I've never dated a guy. I just see it as we'r all people and if its a girl or a guy that makes me happy than I don't care which it is. Well I have a friend of mine who is 18 and also bi. He knows I'm bi. I've been getting these feelings that he has feelings towards me for the past few months. Twice at a party we were dared to make out which he agreed to very easily. One of the partys I was dared to tickle him around his groin and instead of just letting me do it on his jeans he lifted his pants and boxers so it was skin on skin. A few weeks ago he was over at my house and we were getting ready to go out and he was all excited and jumping on my bed and joked about us changing in front of each other and when i said it wasnt that big of a deal he just kinda smiled and got his clothes and ran back in to change with me. As i was changing he ended up pulling on me and pulling me onto the bed with him and I fell ontop of him. A bunch of people were coming back to my house later that night to party and he asked if he needed to crash could he use my bed and i said i was useing it tonight but its a queen and i dont mind shareing with whoever calls dibs and he said he wanted dibs. Well anyway we went out with some of our friends to a club. I was grinding with one of my female friends and he came up behind me and grinded behind me. And when someone asked for a slow song to be played he came up and slow danced with me. We ended up running into this girl that he has liked for ever and they ended up hooking up and then she didnt want him to come back to my house cuz she was afraid he would drink so he told me he couldnt come over to the party. Well that same week i ended up hooking up with another girl that he has liked and he seemed generally upset about this, even tho he now had a gf and i cant help but wonder if it was because she wasnt single anymore or if it was cuz i wasnt. And when we broke up he seemed kinda happy about it. And now whenever I see him he is either really happy to see me or he kinda ignors me. I've realized that i actually really like him but I doont know what i want to do about it. He's a really good friend and I dont want him to think Im weird for wanting more and he's still dating the girl that he hooked up with. He has made joke like comments about how we will never date but he has also asked if I would date him (in a joking way) Part of me thinks that Im just making it sound like he likes me because thats what I want but would he have done all of that if he didnt have feelings? How do I find out how he feels?
 
Welcome to JUB.

You sound underage, but I'll believe you're actually 18.

It sounds like you want to be with him. How do you find out if he wants the same thing?

ASK HIM

He knows you're bi, you know he's bi. Maybe he just wants to experiment with you a little. If you guys decide to be together after the girl, then go for it. I was "with" a guy and we're still friends, so I know it can be done.
If you decide to just "explore" each other, then go ahead and have fun with it. Maybe it'll bring you even closer, who knows.

Just be adult about it and talk to the guy
 
Barnwire said:
How do I find out how he feels?
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Since you have felt each other up, I think you know how he feels.

As for knowing what he wants....

Ask him.

Not us.

Him.
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(Yes, Lex... I've been wanting to use that for a while).

But given the revolving door that the two of you seem to be involved in relationship-wise, just have realistic expectations about what can happen when you do the deed with your friends.
 
He wants you BAD.

It sounds like you're starting to fall in love with him, too.
Just get together already, stop dancing around the subject and just tell each other about your feelings for each other!

I'll bet you anything he's willing to dump her at the drop of a hat if you say you want him. And he probably was upset because you had a GF, too.
 
Gawd I hate it when chicks come in and mess things up between two dudes! :grrr:

Please trust me when I tell you this, at your age the chicks are looking for a husband, and two bi-guys just want to get laid! ..|

I think that you need to arrange for some "quality" alone time with your friend.

From your first post it sounds like his gf (read looking for a husband) cock blocked you.

Get back in the game (and stop playing games!), and just go for it! :D
 
In the mean time, invest in some paragraphs. We can't help you if we can't understand you.
 
There's only one thing that can fix all this.

It's you both sitting down and talking about who needs what.

It's called communication...
 
You youngins are so busy texting all the time you have really not learned the art of communication. Like others have said, this is so easy. Just sit down with him and TALK for god sakes.
 
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