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Not sure where to put this, but I just had sex with a man
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I just topped another man and even sucked his dick. To this day I have considered myself straight and now I still feel the same. I was just curious.. But what do others think? Does this make me gay? I sort of regret what I did and was sort of tipsy when doing it. I don't think I will do it again. Sorry if this is spam, I just want others input..

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Also, I've had sex with women if that matters..
 
I'd say that if you keep feeling that you want to do it you might be bisexual. Don't worry about it, just enjoy it, I understand why you would regret it, it happens whenever you do something you think it's wrong but if you really enjoy it and want to do it just go for it. Nobody's fun should be spoiled by labels.
 
No, an act of sex with another man does not make you gay or prove that you are gay. A lot of straight guys experiment. The real test is whether you are attracted to men or women the most. If you are not attracted to men, and are being honest with yourself, you are not gay. If you say both, there will come a time when it will be one or the other and the sooner you find which the better.
 
Having sex with a guy doesn't automatically make you gay and its normal to feel regret. In saying that, do you have any sexual attraction to guys at all or were you just 'curious' and wanted to try it out? Did you enjoy it?
 
It doesn't matter what we think. However, I don't think you are straight. Based on your 10 posts at JUB, it is obvious you enjoy the attention of gay men and you enjoy being sexual with them, at least online. Now this attention and attraction has lead you to actual sex. You didn't accidentally have sex with him, you were headed in that direction for some time. The important thing is that you be honest with yourself. If your online activity and desire to act out with other men continues, at some point you will have to stop calling yourself curious. Human sexuality is complicated, which means we don't always understand ourselves.
 
Hot4Latinos said:
The real problem, socially speaking, is that being gay is still the most horrible thing anyone can imagine. It's sad.
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Sexuality is not even listed "on the list of horrible social things"... I am a mostly straight guy with gay friends. They are just like any other friends and I love them as friends...You are ok. All is good. Just be ok in your skin.
 
Nothing wrong with it .. Sex just feels good. If you want more with a man than a woman ... well maybe then you are leaning more to the other side of the fence.
Just for now, Just enjoy it.
 
There are many reasons a 'straight' guy would engage in gay sex. I guess we could say that if a 'straight' guy does have sex with a guy then he may have latent homosexual urges or is open-minded and curious enough to give it a shot. But if he did enjoy it and would do it again, then I guess he is somewhere between 1 and 5 on the Kinsey scale.

Also, I can see why guys on here would love jaredxxox to be gay. I've seen his pics.. very hot man, just saying ;)
 
The damn Romans had homosexual urges and were even in relationships. Society today corrupted having a human act like a human and instead from early childhood, be told who their supposed to like. And please don't bring religion into this.
 
Did you enjoy it but still like women? Welcome to bisexuality.

Did you enjoy it better than any woman you've ever been with before and don't want to go back? Welcome to gayness.

Did you want to try but it was impossible to even fuck the guy because it was a turn-off and the only way you could finish was by thinking about tits? Thank you for stopping bi, but we're sending you back to straightland.

Did you enjoy it but the whole thing freaked you out because you never saw it coming? Welcome to the closet. Don't stay there too long.
 
One thing I can say as far anal goes fucking a girl with the hottest female ass in the word is not as hot as fucking a well built guy with a deep crack bubble butt!!
 
it does not make you gay. If this is your frist time it could be that you are just courious/expertimal . If you contiune you might be open minded or bi. When i was in college, i had a three month fling with my roommate. Do i call myself gay or bi. No, I think that i am open minded and just went thru a phase. Will i do it again i do'nt know.
 
62624rd said:
it does not make you gay. If this is your frist time it could be that you are just courious/expertimal . If you contiune you might be open minded or bi. When i was in college, i had a three month fling with my roommate. Do i call myself gay or bi. No, I think that i am open minded and just went thru a phase. Will i do it again i do'nt know.
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I agree to this. Maybe ur just straight curious. Most men love to experiment. Sometimes, experimenting is a way for us to really know our preferences. :)
 
Maybe you were gay-curios, if you don't crave it more your not gay, the first time I sucked cock I couldn't get enough, I felt I had to fuck women to prove to my self I wasn't gay, but I always came back to I wanted to suck cock.
 
when you had the guy's dick in your mouth, were you thinking "I wish I was eating pussy right now", or were you thinking, "At last, sucking a cock and I love it"?
 
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