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Odd situation with my best friend

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In 1989, ? i met , i will call him "M", He and i both worked in a college, and saw each other everyday. we got very close. in 1998, he was forced to resign, due to a bitch boss. he moved , had to, shortley afterward, the day he left the college, he and i made out, and cuddled for about 5 hours. i got him a ring & proposed to him, he said, you don,t want to marry someone like me, we had no contact until 2010, and did not see each other in person until may 2012. he mentioned the ring that i got him, in a text message, about two weeks ago. and said that he wishes he had said yes back in 1998. he has some baggage, but i still love him, he clearly loves me. my family thought he and i were a couple in the 90's , we were not, so i am not sure what i want to do. i always thought he was bi, but gave up on any plans of being his lover in 95, btw, in 98, he initiated the kiss, not me. i want him as a lover, btw, he looks a lot like k. sutherlund, aka jack bauer. i'm sorry im rambling, but just thinking about the way he smells, how blue his eyes are, im hard now. i want to sit down with him, and ask, does he want to get married now, does he want to be my lover, what do you think?
 
You met him 24 years ago. It's now or never, dude.
 
Maybe go out on a few dates. It's been an awful long time. Get to know him again.
 
We are going out to basically , have a date , next week, i may propose again, i don't know.
 
MARS57 said:
i want to sit down with him, and ask, does he want to get married now, does he want to be my lover, what do you think?
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I think why get so heavy right off the bat?........ :confused:
If the two of you still feel "it" you'll have plenty of time for heavy matters.
 
Yeh what the obsession with proposing just get acquainted with each other gradually if you really want this to work for the long term
 
To throw in a couple of old worn out cliche's - There's no time like the present and don't dwell on the past. I'd say if you're still in love with this guy and you think he's worth the effort, then get with him and see if it can happen. Not overnight, but in time.

Otherwise you're going to be sitting around in another 10+ years questioning yourself again with "What if?"

Hope it works out for ya! ..|
 
It's a new year guy and time to grab the bull by its' horns...just go in open minded as you don't know all of the baggage.
 
MARS57 said:
We are going out to basically , have a date , next week, i may propose again, i don't know.
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I think it is a good idea to try to get to know him again. In all these years, he could have changed, and no doubt, you did too.

Your shares experiences date back some 20 years; in the period between then and now, you both would have acquired new experiences, adventures etc. that you both did not share. It is the experience that makes a man.

I feel you are going down the right path, date again, garner some fresh joined experiences, then decide if he is the one for you - and let him decide if you are still the same person he met two decades ago. You have waited a score of years, what's another couple of months before you - or he - proposes?
 
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