Ya know? I've done that before. I don't anymore, though. But yeah, there were times when I'd fantasize about watching porn together, and/or masturbating in each other's presence. But when we actually hang out, the thought never crossed my mind.
And no, I don't believe for one second that it's a "problem". Fantasies are fantasies as long as you keep them in check. I think it'd only really be problematic if you had strong urges to act on them and become conflicted about how to proceed.
Yeah, I probably should have been clearer about that. I meant it’s a problem insofar that it's sending me conflicting messages about what exactly I want. Usually, a fantasy is something one would very much desire in real life, but it's not here. So it's a problem in that respect.
Like you, I’ve never had JO sessions or anything like that but I'm pretty sure a few of my straight friends have been up for it in the past. In fact, I'm just going to list all of the straight friends whom have given me the impression that they would be open to fooling around.
Friend No.1: Let’s just call him Kyle. I was real friendly with this guy 4 or 5 years ago, not so much now. Back then, we would spend SO much time just talking about sex, and he would randomly throw into the convo "Fuck, I'm horny" or something. One day I just decided to go along with it and said “Yeah, I’d love a wank right now" and he was like "Go ahead; I don't mind" I would have loved to, but I chickened out. He also spent a large time looking at my crotch when he thought I couldn’t see him. When he would stay over a mine for a night or vice versa, he would always jerk off in the morning, I always pretended to be asleep. Looking back, I’m almost certain he knew I couldn’t have been asleep all those times. I did it a few times as well. God, reading that has made me realise what a lost opportunity that was haha
Friend No.2: This is actually pretty recent. Let’s call him Steve. He went to my high school, and was in my class. He ALWAYS talked about girls. Made me think he was overcompensating lol. We both worked at the same job, and he and I sat beside each other all day. One day we were just messing about, and he threw some shredded paper over me that landed in my lap. I looked down and saw that I had a pretty big, down the leg bulge going on. He must have seen it too because he immediately laughed and was like “haha sorry man” and put his hand right on it and started picking up the paper! From then on, work became a lot more touchy feely on his part. One night we were out, and I was sitting on a bar stool talking to him, and he was standing. For the whole convo, he had his d*ck rubbing against my knee. It took me a while to realise, and I’m sure it was on purpose. There are other incidents too that I just can’t remember right now.
Friend No 3. Can be read here:
http://www.justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=202161
That took way too long so I’ll post the others later! Anybody else have such experiences?
Anyone else want to share their curiousities?
