Draven
Sex God
So while on Facebook I made an ambiguous post (to no one in particular) that I was done being used by fake friends and more or less left it that. I didn't name names, I didn't swear or talk shit I just said "you know who you are". I get a comment from someone I have been talking to for months now and he says something like this: "Sorry...next time say it to my face instead of on facebook!" And the post had nothing to do with him at all so I delete the comment and write back, "I am trying to lure him out" and he replied back "You're a dramaqueen, posting a lame post like that and trying to get attention." Okay...despite the fact I told him that the post was NOT about him, maybe one or two people "liked" it one commented on it and I left it at that - yet somehow that makes me the biggest attention whore asshole in the history of Facebook. Whatever...
{Disclaimer: the guy in question is someone that I met last year, early 2012/late 2011 and we've been talking on the phone, sending emails and getting to know each other better.}
Anyway so that remark pissed me off and I fire off a rather lengthy reply (I will try and make a long story short). He is the type of person that will make a backhanded remark to someone (me) i.e. like, "It's okay that you're a closet case, I still think you're cute". Wtf? Okay I have never once said that I was in the closet, no I don't act like Chris Crocker or a member of Rupaul's Drag Race but I guess he is the type of person who insists that you are "in the closet" unless you are wearing pink, and marching in-sync with the band in the parade. I tell him in my message that I do not appreciate these little "jibes" he gets in every time we talk, and it is almost always something to do with being a closet case or being poor/having no money (as If I can help that) and to top it off he laughs and says "lulz just kidding" which I do not believe at this point that he was ever kidding. I think he has been trying to get to me and change me/dictate me lifestyle so that it better benefits him, which is why I have to put up with the daily phone calls at inappropriate hours of the night as well as mouthy/bitchy responses when I don't tell him what he wants to hear.
Now I am not an angel by any means, I can cuss like a sailor and if someone is annoying me I will let them know. In short I am blunt, but tactful but I am already over all of this "let's control/dictate Draven" business it's getting old because it is the same feeling I had with the last guy I was talking to; always wanting to know where I was, why I didn't answer his almighty important phone call, angry if I didn't apologize and kiss his ass afterward, tried controlling me by getting me into things and ideas that I wasn't/aren't interested in. I think it's funny that he would call me a dramaqueen when in fact the post had nothing to do with him (for the attention), yet I am the drama queen for feeling offended and used for being dictated and insulted.
{Disclaimer: the guy in question is someone that I met last year, early 2012/late 2011 and we've been talking on the phone, sending emails and getting to know each other better.}
Anyway so that remark pissed me off and I fire off a rather lengthy reply (I will try and make a long story short). He is the type of person that will make a backhanded remark to someone (me) i.e. like, "It's okay that you're a closet case, I still think you're cute". Wtf? Okay I have never once said that I was in the closet, no I don't act like Chris Crocker or a member of Rupaul's Drag Race but I guess he is the type of person who insists that you are "in the closet" unless you are wearing pink, and marching in-sync with the band in the parade. I tell him in my message that I do not appreciate these little "jibes" he gets in every time we talk, and it is almost always something to do with being a closet case or being poor/having no money (as If I can help that) and to top it off he laughs and says "lulz just kidding" which I do not believe at this point that he was ever kidding. I think he has been trying to get to me and change me/dictate me lifestyle so that it better benefits him, which is why I have to put up with the daily phone calls at inappropriate hours of the night as well as mouthy/bitchy responses when I don't tell him what he wants to hear.
Now I am not an angel by any means, I can cuss like a sailor and if someone is annoying me I will let them know. In short I am blunt, but tactful but I am already over all of this "let's control/dictate Draven" business it's getting old because it is the same feeling I had with the last guy I was talking to; always wanting to know where I was, why I didn't answer his almighty important phone call, angry if I didn't apologize and kiss his ass afterward, tried controlling me by getting me into things and ideas that I wasn't/aren't interested in. I think it's funny that he would call me a dramaqueen when in fact the post had nothing to do with him (for the attention), yet I am the drama queen for feeling offended and used for being dictated and insulted.
Being tough on yourself and brutally honest will give you alot of mental freedom and free you up so when you get the kind of guy you want you will be ready for him.
Also that time my teammate posted a comparison of poster between 2 blockbuster movies. The post ended up with paragraphs of random arguments and complete off topic opinions. Our college lecturers even commented in them 
