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not another one of these "Help Ive fallen madly in love with my best friend" threads...
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Oh, those straight best friends!
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Yeah, you guys are very helpful. I really look forward to what you have to say.
So I can say I'm like those people...
I'm 20, and when I grew up, during my teenage years, I had no girlfriend, no group of friends to hang out with, I had a very possessive mother, and I spent all my days at home. And what did I do? I kept watching daytime dramas, you know, Young and Restless, Guiding Light, B&B, which I had recorded while I was at school. Well, watching them kinda made me a drama queen, I realize that I am the kind of person who thinks that if he hasn't such a glamourus life (with all those shaenigans, those intrigues etc), then he's a looser. I kinda look at my life like I'm the viewer of a new soap! And that's what my experience with S. was like. It was a soap. And the day he threw me out... I whished I had never lived a soap. I wished I could live a normal life, for once, without all that drama.
I'm so tired of myself, really. I miss him TOO MUCH. I don't think I'll do anything to harm myself, because frankly I DON'T HAVE THE BALLS. But, believe me... I would love to.
Hey, mine is older! Check the first post...
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i don't really get what you're saying...
I went through the same thing except my best friend is bi so
we did fool around once or twice but after he totally became distanced from me once in awhile he would go back to flirty mode but not that often i almost always know the look he gives me when hes in that mood.But i got sick and tired of being in love with him now i got the upper hand again and im starting to explore who i am as a person.
trust me forget needing drama stay at home for a week get a job somewhere else and start meeting other people and at the same time stay home and chill by yourself if you need to talk to someone do it with yourself not for long but for s a little bit i always found having a good side / bad side of you conversation to help me out a lot.What i basically did was say out loud what my weak side was whining about (" im so in love with him and he don't love me back") then i would say the opposite (" so what if he doesn't love you u better than him anyways" ) just do some mantras and build on your ego and self esteem.Punish yourself for having feelings for him physically and mentally make it painful to think about him.I used to think that crap didnt work but when i tried it it was my solution now whenever my ex best friend tries to push me around or decides to reject me for a day i reject him when he looks for me for each time he rejected me i challenge him to fights and dont feel like he controls me because he is the man i once loved fuck him he could suck my dick.Im worth more than anything in this world i was born alone and i will die alone so fuck emotions ima be ruthless.
Thats what you gotta do be all about yourself for a while you were bullied when you were young , you went through a lot when you were young take out that anger from inside you because if you don't let it out it will implode and make you depressed to the point where you cant move out of your bed. Trust me man boost your ego and be cocky for a change dress up change your look your lifestyle everything.Once you get over the pain you can go back to yourself and be emotional again and enjoy the fact that you can switch from a naive obsessive nice guy to a cold ruthless person who doesn't give a dam about anyone but themselves
we did fool around once or twice but after he totally became distanced from me once in awhile he would go back to flirty mode but not that often i almost always know the look he gives me when hes in that mood.But i got sick and tired of being in love with him now i got the upper hand again and im starting to explore who i am as a person.
trust me forget needing drama stay at home for a week get a job somewhere else and start meeting other people and at the same time stay home and chill by yourself if you need to talk to someone do it with yourself not for long but for s a little bit i always found having a good side / bad side of you conversation to help me out a lot.What i basically did was say out loud what my weak side was whining about (" im so in love with him and he don't love me back") then i would say the opposite (" so what if he doesn't love you u better than him anyways" ) just do some mantras and build on your ego and self esteem.Punish yourself for having feelings for him physically and mentally make it painful to think about him.I used to think that crap didnt work but when i tried it it was my solution now whenever my ex best friend tries to push me around or decides to reject me for a day i reject him when he looks for me for each time he rejected me i challenge him to fights and dont feel like he controls me because he is the man i once loved fuck him he could suck my dick.Im worth more than anything in this world i was born alone and i will die alone so fuck emotions ima be ruthless.
Thats what you gotta do be all about yourself for a while you were bullied when you were young , you went through a lot when you were young take out that anger from inside you because if you don't let it out it will implode and make you depressed to the point where you cant move out of your bed. Trust me man boost your ego and be cocky for a change dress up change your look your lifestyle everything.Once you get over the pain you can go back to yourself and be emotional again and enjoy the fact that you can switch from a naive obsessive nice guy to a cold ruthless person who doesn't give a dam about anyone but themselves
Hey, guys, thanks for your advices.
i_dont_care, unfortunately it's already over between me and Sacha. We mutually decided not to talk anymore, not to text message etc. We won't even say hi when we meet on the streets. It's freaking over. And, I don't know... I still feel like I'm dying when I see him... it's horrible.
Gooey, I'll try to practice what you told me. I already found a job, this summer; I worked as a waiter, and it was quite helpful.
Now I have a new problem - well, sort of. I needed a new roommate, and I found this guy (we went to high school together), who's very handsome. I purposedly chose him (because he's handsome). But not because I'm gay and want to be with him, no. It's much more of a thing like... 'I don't want to be with losers because everybody will think I'm a looser too... and if I stay with this nice guy, everybody will consider me as well', which were the basics for my history with Sacha.
Now, I'm asking you: is this a sick behaviour? Is history repeating itself?
i_dont_care, unfortunately it's already over between me and Sacha. We mutually decided not to talk anymore, not to text message etc. We won't even say hi when we meet on the streets. It's freaking over. And, I don't know... I still feel like I'm dying when I see him... it's horrible.
Gooey, I'll try to practice what you told me. I already found a job, this summer; I worked as a waiter, and it was quite helpful.
Now I have a new problem - well, sort of. I needed a new roommate, and I found this guy (we went to high school together), who's very handsome. I purposedly chose him (because he's handsome). But not because I'm gay and want to be with him, no. It's much more of a thing like... 'I don't want to be with losers because everybody will think I'm a looser too... and if I stay with this nice guy, everybody will consider me as well', which were the basics for my history with Sacha.
Now, I'm asking you: is this a sick behaviour? Is history repeating itself?