oh, what to do?

[MindBlast]

You guys need to have the "safe sex talk".

He's probably worried about catching something. I know it seems silly and irrational, but it's a legitimate concern and that talk needs to happen ummm...YESTERDAY.

Do it. Now.

 

[8tomtoms8]

Precum is normal for many guys. And there is nothing you can do about it. I know, I do it a lot. If you have been tested and are disease free, there is nothing he can catch from it. He'll just have to get used to it. I think once he understands that it is normal for you, he should feel better.

 

[KaraBulut]

This isn't about your precum. This is about your boyfriend's sexual and emotional hangups.

Unless he's willing to do something about his hangups with sex, the future holds only a lot of sexual frustration for you. And the constant fear of emotional blackmail if you want to break up with him.

 

[Raincoat Massacre]

Pre-cum is fun! What's wrong with him? I would have dumped him. People with extreme pet peeves get on my last nerve...

 

[rareboy]

He's got more problems than your precum.

I'd move to bigger island.

 

[G-Lexington]

Hawaii isn't that small.

Lex

 

[954dude]

I don't like precum either, so I understand your boyfriends situation. Just use a condom with every sex act. If he cant get over it, then talk long about it.

 

[EvilForce]

I love precum. I love cum. Since I don't precum virtually at all, I love my boys to precum a lot. That way it's lube for two.

Personally, at this stage I'd say you are ready to swap blood tests and start having sex. 6 months is way, plenty of time to get to know each other without sex. I know a boy I was hot for, wouldn't get 6 months without putting out.

Besides, if he doesn't like precum he should be fucking you, sucking you, or jerking you off everyday to keep the flow of juices to a minimum.

 

[Eagle653]

^^^sorry to hear that, but don't let his hang ups about pre-cum become your hang ups about it, and get you paranoid about it. It's normal and, with most guys, rather sexy.