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Ok, for a while I liked my friend's younger brother, I'm preparing to come out to him

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I stay away from friends brothers and friends other family members even if they are gay.

I value my friendships too much to risk it.

Thats just my opinion, though... not a judgement in anyway. As long as you can live with possibly losing both of them as a part of your life, go for it.

If you can't live with the worst possible outcome, then just find someone else.
 
Keithr555 said:
I'm 25 and he is 19. I am only out to one friend, and the friend knows that I like this guy, but doesn't think I have a chance. He's a few hours away from me at school now. He has his group of friends, but we talk on facebook and text occasionally. I'm very close with the family as a whole, but never spent a night alone with him. He's my weed buddy and we have a lot in common and always joke around in a flirty kind of way at times, but he doesn't know I'm into him, let alone guys in general. I'm most definitely sure that he's straight, but I figure what could I possibly have to lose if I at least come out to him. I need to find the right time to do this when he's home and when we're both alone. The friend I'm out to thinks I have a better chance of getting struck by lightning than getting into his pants. blech!

Is this going anywhere? Who knows. It's just a rant I suppose, but after seeing a lot of similar threads on here, I thought I'd also partake. I hope to give you guys progress overtime. Let me know if you have any questions on things I may have left out or any advice. Wish me luck! :D
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Just come out to him. Don't mention that you like him.
 
Keithr555 said:
Right, this is what I was going to do. Of course if this happens, I'm going to wait for his reaction.

I guess the worse that could happen is that he tells me he's straight? or no longer talk to me?
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Yeah, the worst that could happen is that he doesn't talk to you anymore, but if that's the kind of guy he is, you don't need him in your life.
 
Keithr555 said:
He seems to be a pretty open-minded guy, but I'm not exactly sure what his view is on gays/bis. I'd rather he at least tell me he's not into guys at all than not say anything and leave me still wondering.
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You coming out to him isn't about if he's into you. Separate you wanting him to be into you, from coming out to him.
 
Keithr555 said:
I'm most definitely sure that he's straight [...]
Is this going anywhere?
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No. It isn't.



How creeped out would you be if a close female friend wanted to suck your dick? Exactly. Find some men you actually have a chance with.
 
I think its good to come out in general, so coming out to a buddy in my eyes is a good idea. But just come out, assume he is straight, if (big IF) he is gay, he will probably come out back to you, them you can progress to stage B, but otherwise, it is better to have a friend you are open and honest with, than one you are not, so come out, but matter of factly.
 
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