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I really want to talk to someone my age, in about the same boat as me, about bi stuff and coming out and all that. I'd just post my thoughts here but that doesn't feel right. So if anyone is willing to help just send me a message on here I guess. Thanks guys.
 
So that are you bombarded with erroneous PM's, what is your age?
 
I'm 39 and gay. But I have two open ears if you wish to take advantage of them. (No, not like that. :) )

Lex
 
Hey man, I'm 23 and I think I'm bi and im struggling with all the coming out stuff....sounds like we might be in the same boat.
 
Hey Trailrider...I'm 30 and bi...not sure that's still in the age bracket you're looking for, but I'd be willing to chat...
 
I'm 21 (almost) and I have been going from bisexual to gay in a speed of light. I have more and more fantasies of having a bf (damn, I really should stop reading those gay stories)!
 
I'm 21 and have 2 free ears at the moment, I can lend them to you if you like.
 
hey dude 24 here and a level head with a fair amount of life experience. i'm here if you've not found what you're looking for yet.
 
TrailRider86 said:
I really want to talk to someone my age, in about the same boat as me, about bi stuff and coming out and all that. I'd just post my thoughts here but that doesn't feel right. So if anyone is willing to help just send me a message on here I guess. Thanks guys.
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If that is the approach that you're most comfortable with, then that's fine.

But you're missing out on a lot of wisdom by narrowing the field.

Why don't you post your story, get opinions and thoughts from the larger group and then if you want to talk privately via PM or in chat, you can do so.
 
I'm new here and I do have the same issue. I even don't know if I'm straight, bi or gay. Because I'm struggling with my feelings I can't get out yet.

Maybe we can help each other?

My age is 23 btw.
 
Absolutist said:
I'm sorry but how can anyone be "struggling" with this? I'm so confused. Why is it so hard for you to decide if you want (sexually, emotionally, whatever) a man or a woman, or both, or none?
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dude it can be hard for people dealing with this issue on a bunch of levels. you have to deal with your feelings if you have religious misgivings. plus for some people deciding who they are attracted to can be hard. are they attracted to men or women sexually, or are they attracted emotionally, and of some of the issues out there those are just the most common. i'm not saying that's what these guys are going through, but give them a break. Not everyone is born with a manual to life and all that stuff. maybe they're a perfect 3 on the Kinsey scale which would be confusing enough for anyone i would think. i don't know i can just see where they might be coming from.
 
Absolutist said:
I'm sorry but how can anyone be "struggling" with this? I'm so confused. Why is it so hard for you to decide if you want (sexually, emotionally, whatever) a man or a woman, or both, or none?
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At first I'm very loyal in relationships. I don't cheat and my life is his/hers in a not slave kind a way. The problem is, is that when I'm dating, that I can't shut my eyes from all the lovely people who are around me. And of course the possibilities of a relationship (parents, childwish and the choice between a penis or a vagina).

Example: You want to buy a car, so you go to a dealer. You see a lot of models. You don't have te money to buy everything you want. (You only can have one partner in my point of view.) Therefore you have to chose what suits you most. And that's where I'm now. I take some cars for a spin (relationship), but I'm always missing something (struggle).

Does this explanes it for you? And by the way, I'm not a person who takes people for a testdrive.
 
Parents and childwish shouldn't come into your decision at all.

How can what your parents want for you affect who you're attracted to--unless you're lying to yourself (like most of have done; been there, done that)?

Forget about what society wants, or religion wants, or your parents want, or having children (gay men can adopt or work with surrogate mothers).

Do what you want.

Once you realize that, the confusion vanishes instantly in a puff of smoke.
 
We don't have a religion at home and my parents are quite understandable to all kind of people, but it's more that on my father's side of the family everything 'hell.' In the past (before I was born and met my mom) my father had a big fight with his family. After a while they had a some sort of truce (I was a baby then), but when I was about 10 years old everything came up again. Since 4 years the pease is back of some sort. I don't want to be the trigger to start the war again in behalf of my father, mother, sister and offcourse myself.

The reason that I know that I can be the trigger, is that they have a (light form of) religion and of the bloodline. (Yes that's important in my father's family because of the blue blood thing. And no... I'm not royalty but from nobility origin.)
 
^The most surprising thing I've read in this forum in months - that there are people in Europe, much less the Netherlands, who still practice Christianity!
 
>>>there are people in Europe, much less the Netherlands, who still practice Christianity!

Well, there IS that Vatican thing there... :)

Lex
 
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