Ok, this I need to know!!!

[cheezit456]

Ok,

So I jack off not alot but enough and in all these porn movies and home videos I always see when the guys finally blows he groans and makes it look so pleasurable and I dont get that.

When I do it, it feels good for a few seconds then it is gone. I want that feeling but I dont know how to get it. Please help me and thanks a ton for reading.

 

[unloadonme]

Enrol at acting school.

 

[BostonGuy1960]

I simply don't know what to tell you. Believe me, my orgasm certainly doesn't last more than 10-15 seconds, but as it happens, it's usually great. Your "few seconds" may feel short, but maybe not much shorter than most of our orgasms.

Guess what. Some guys I've been with are silent when they come, and surprise me. Thus, not all guys display intense emotions during the moment.

You may want to look up and call toll-free the NY Men's Health Center (or is it Crisis?). I called them during business hours a few years ago on an unrelated topic; they were pleasant and informative. I'm sure that they would give you good feedback.

Good luck!

 

[Dephira]

Don't believe everything you see in porn.

 

[naquedon]

You are perfectly normal, please don't compare yourself to porn actors because they are exactly that... Actors.

Now stop worrying and go and wank yourself silly and most of all enjoy it!

 

[KaraBulut]

Porn can be instructional but you also have to keep in mind that it's not as real or spontaneous as it appears (assuming it is directed and edited well).

Most of the stuff that you're seeing in a cumshot is acting. Some people are more vocal normally but in general, the people who watch porn want to feel like the person they are watching is having a good time. The actors and models are being given off-stage direction to be more loud and vocal.

By the way, in some of the amateur porn, you're seeing the same cumshot done with multiple cameras. Usually, the editor pulls together different views from the various cameras and the sound track is repeated. So, you see and hear the same cumshot from multiple angles.

In porn movies, you're more likely to see cut-away shots where you're watching the cumshot and then they cut-away to show the model's face and then they cut back to the money shot. Those shots are often filmed at different times, so the facial expression of the model may have been filmed separately and it may not be the actual facial expression when he came. The sound is often dubbed back in- sometimes with the actual sound the model made but other times it's a track that was recorded separately.

 

[Nelson]

The intensity and duration of a male orgasm is highly individual. Sometimes it is just a pleasant rhytmic ejaculation other times it earthshattering howling and guttural spasms that make the body jerk and tense up and relax several times, accompanied by almost dissociative states or visions like e.i a fireworks grande finale - feeling one with the universe most primal instincts.

Some men are drippers - others are shooters! Some are both depending on how aroused they are.

I will say the level of arousal vary a lot. If masturbation is just like a chore to relieve boredom and you are not into it - you will only get a realease - but using your fantasies, porn, or sextoys or a sweet sexy partner you can build a higher level of mental and physiological arousal and muscular tension that will give you a greater orgasm.

Like most point out - porn actors do act too - others are the real deal - this probably vary too.

It is also my experience that being in better physical shape - gives better orgasms, that are a more pleasant for the whole body and mind - not just a release.