Okay Here We Go Again...

[Muscles4daze]

I have a crush on a new straight friend. This guy is hot as hell, gorgeous face great body, but believe it or not I am attracted to his personality. He is the sweetest guy, just a genuienly nice person. I know he has gay friends, so he is not homophobic at all. He rarely talks about females, so maybe there is a slight chance that he's open to try new things. I'm just gonna take things slow. Believe it or not I am just happy being friends with him, but I wouldn't mind being more.

 

[Ramindra]

There's only one way to find out.....

 

[1st love ron]

He doesn't sound like he's 100% straight, that's for sure.
"He has gay friends"...dose he know you are gay?

 

[BigJ7forU]

from your pics I'm sure he's thinking the same thing about you. He'd be one lucky
guy.

 

[RationalLunacy]

Just keep him away from Newboy12.

 

[eric55]

Question for you..... Ever asked yourself why you keep falling for inaccessible guys? Do you enjoy setting yourself up for disappointment or is it the guarantee of not having to actually make a relationship work? Or maybe you just get off on the attention you get for posting pointless crushes.

Go find yourself a nice guy who actually wants to suck your dick and leave the straight boys to the girls they're interested in.

Move on.

 

[Soilwork]

Yes.

Let's assume that since he's not homophobic that he's actually gay.

What the fuck is wrong with guys that they only go for unattainable men?

I mean, if he has lots of gay friends, why not try to ask one of THOSE guys out?

 

[yvrpalms]

well, just snap out of it jusk kidding.. as says..

There's only one way to find out.....

 

[JackFTwist]

eric55 and soilwork as always raise great points.

Wanting the unavailable means never having to deal with what is available, and fantasy is better a better place to live than real life since you don't have to do anything.

 

[Muscles4daze]

Yes.

Let's assume that since he's not homophobic that he's actually gay.

What the fuck is wrong with guys that they only go for unattainable men?

I mean, if he has lots of gay friends, why not try to ask one of THOSE guys out?

I don't know why either? I've been attracted to openly gay men as well, but unfortunately the majority of them have been in relationships or failed my morals test, so it wouldn't work.

 

[ahotjock71]

I don't know why either? I've been attracted to openly gay men as well, but unfortunately the majority of them have been in relationships or failed my morals test, so it wouldn't work.

So you think straight men have better morals????? Honey, you really don't know straight men, do you?

 

[Soilwork]

"it woudln't work?"

but a relationship with a straight guy would?


maybe along with that "morals" test you can write in a "compatability" test?

I mean, if you're going to discount someone for not being up to your personal standards (which I guess is cool), why not discount guys for liking having sex with girls?

I don't mean to be so hard on you but really... you know you're wasting time even giving it thought.

 

[Muscles4daze]

Question for you..... Ever asked yourself why you keep falling for inaccessible guys? Do you enjoy setting yourself up for disappointment or is it the guarantee of not having to actually make a relationship work? Or maybe you just get off on the attention you get for posting pointless crushes.

Go find yourself a nice guy who actually wants to suck your dick and leave the straight boys to the girls they're interested in.

Move on.

Oh I see your one of those lol. Miserable, sexually deprived gay man who needs to dish out catty comments on a message board in order to mask the fact they are not happy with themselves.

Go find yourself someone who pity's you enough to screw you, that would be there good deed for the day lol!
remember Eric it's not what you say it's how you say it, so don't front like your trying to give advice because your trying to be an asshole!

 

[Muscles4daze]

So you think straight men have better morals????? Honey, you really don't know straight men, do you?

First of all I think a lot of you are reading too much in to this, I never said straight men had better morals in general, but this guy does. I never said I was attracted to him because he was straight, It's his personality that appeals to me. He is a nice guy. Your acting like I'm Osama Bin Laden and shit because I have a crush on a guy that's straight. I'm not losing sleep over him or anything, I'm comfortable being just friends with him, but yes I wouldn't mind being more than that.

 

[Muscles4daze]

from your pics I'm sure he's thinking the same thing about you. He'd be one lucky
guy.

Thanks Man!

 

[eric55]

Oh I see your one of those lol. Miserable, sexually deprived gay man who needs to dish out catty comments on a message board in order to mask the fact they are not happy with themselves.

Go find yourself someone who pity's you enough to screw you, that would be there good deed for the day lol!
remember Eric it's not what you say it's how you say it, so don't front like your trying to give advice because your trying to be an asshole!

Buddy, I'm not trying to hand out advice, I'd actually have to give a rat's ass to be handing out advice. I'm simply pointing out the annoying prevalence of people who spend energy on men who are not interested in them and then come looking for sympathy or suggestions.

Fascination with Straight Men... I.E. men who are not gay, that is, not interested in sexual relations with other men, is something which points to one of two things...

A) Fear of intimacy, because you never need to own up to the possibility of a real romantic connection with a straight man.

B) Internalized homophobia... I.E. other gay men are beneath your standards.... which makes you what I wonder? A singular specimen, unique in all of creation?

So get a life, and get a real partner..... who, incidentally, won't be a straight guy.



Oh, and by the way.... my love life is just fine thank-you.