okay - wtf?!

[lifeisamazing]

i get that this is a very casual place to hook up and what not....but what i dont get (and I am 18...so shed some light) why in hell are 18 year olds posting themselves like pieces of meat on here saying

"Fuck me big daddy! Pop my innocent cherry!!!"


I mean where is the dignity? respect? the ability to have a purpose for yourself?

What those guys on here are doing is lowering the respect this whole website has about 40 year olds (no offense guys, i love ya!) going after newly turned 18 year olds. I mean that rarely happens, but everyone is gonna start seeing that. But i have one question for those people-

Are you seriously that much of a waste of humanity to post yourself on here?





Because I really dont get it.

 

[lifeisamazing]

I know its not a hook-up website. It just makes me sick to see it.

But why did you post? Seriously, why? Was losing your virginity that important to you? or having sex?

 

[stellar69]

check out the rest of the site.. these are forums.. places where, we, as gay men can come and chat about what is important or special to us. I agree there is a pecentage of ..."come fuck me" .. posts. But there are a lot more important issues discussed on here.. Explore!!

 

[rockrboy]

Also, man, not all of those 18 year olds are looking for the 40 year olds. Some of them are looking for people their age.

I know, that at that age, it's sometimes hard to find a gay or bisexual friend or someone to have a little fun with. And, while the hormones are raging (as mine are), it's sometimes a little maddening that it might be difficult.

So what better way than to (somewhat anonymously) post that you're here, ready and willing to have sex?! I think this is a great opportunity. I found someone through online (finally) and was able to have my first gay experience just recently.

So I, in no way, frown upon the people's actions on this site.


Besides, if an 18 year old wants to do this, post themselves "like meat," as you put it, who are we to judge them? It's their decision, not yours or mine.

Welcome to JUB, Lifeisamazing. I hope you have a better experience than what you have seen so far!

 

[sunshinesteve]

am I reading the wrong forums?????????

 

[Yuki Sohma]

My favorite colour is blue​

 

[Andreus]

DRAMA

oooooh

the teen years are so very theatrical arent they

 

[Yuki Sohma]

Friends, Romans, fellow JUBers (I think me been watchin' -2- much HBO)...

Geez, when I wuz 18 I didn't care much about the age of my partner (well maybe just a wee bit) all I knew is that I liked to be with other men..............as-a-matter-of-fact I figured it out very early in life...............

 

[ladygrey]

Oh hun

I know it can seem strange, but people have every right to do what they want

Yah, maybe some of them will regret those pics someday

and some won't

Just read what you like and connect to, but ignore the rest

Jub, like life, is all about compromise.

 

[TinyToeOut]

I'm 19 but I like men who are significantly older (say >20 yrs senior), I can't help it, it's like asking me why am I gay, I don't really have a definite answer.

 

[rotary]

People do it for a variety of reasons. Maybe they're just having some fun, or perhaps they're looking to fill a void in their lives by posting pictures so they feel wanted or desirable. Who knows, it's up to them.

 

[justsimon]

I don't understand the problem...

 

[RationalLunacy]

I'm 50 years old, and I wouldn't mind doing an 18 year old every so often. I also wouldn't mind doing a leather daddy every so often. I also wouldn't mind doing an Amishman every so often.

So sue me.

 

[hermanding]

if it bothers you, you're in the wrong place
ding

 

[trydegrau]

Hmmm, I semi-understand your point. It's not really my place or yours to judge how others hook-up, or with who. I can only speak for myself, while I would prolly go for someone older than myself (25-35), I wouldn't whore myself through the internet, there are plenty of places in the city for that sort of thing anyways.

 

[buzzj]

I misunderstood: I posted pics of myself.

For some people, older men represent experience. What better way to get some direction in your sexual education than from someone who has been there?

Sex, for me, was the ultimate verification of my sexuality. Even though I sought a guy near my age, it doesn't make me less of a person. People seem to get really hung up on sex: Sex is two things...An expression of intimacy with someone you love and getting off. Being able to distinguish between the two is what causes some people trouble.

You have your own impression about sex and that's great...More power to you! But, be careful to preach to others. That can get you into a lot of trouble.

Thanks for a restrained, intelligent response.

 

[CagedBird]

What those guys on here are doing is lowering the respect this whole website has about 40 year olds (no offense guys, i love ya!) going after newly turned 18 year olds.

WOW! Hold the assumptions & judgmental jabs about us 40 year old [or older] guys "going after newly turned 18 yr olds"

Nothing could be further from the truth for me, & a few others here I know over the age of 40. Myself, I welcome 18 year old to participate & share in the gay pride on these forums. On the other hand, I avoid & often detest the immature looks of guys under 25 years of age. Further, I [as others] prefer men with ten years our age group. Slack on the mature group please, hold the stereotypes.

Thanks
Caged

 

[hermanding]

poor thing - all attitude - will end up alone
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