Oldest person you've had sex with ?

[Joeking]

I'm pretty sure Van-ee gets an acting award for that one --- hook, line, and sinker.

And, who CARES what's made up, facetious, and true out here?

It's entertainment.

And what fun.

No, It is true.

The warm bran muffins sold me.

 

[Críostóir]

You paedo!

Geronto, actually. Gerontophilia, a sexual fetish for aged people.

O_0 Here in Texas that is called stachatory rape and your buddy would have been sent to jail. As he should have been...

Statutory. According to the statute (law), as opposed to forcible.

 

[mikeyjon]

Old guys in their 50's. I will be 50 in June (pulls knife from heart).

 

[asu1117]

It is a pedophile's goal to make some poor kid feel comfortable about the fact that he would be taking advantage of their ignorance.

I don't care if you wanted it or not. That makes me sick.

I agree....


That's disgusting.

 

[The White Stripe]

I agree....


That's disgusting.

Glad to see Im not the only one with common sense around here.

 

[Críostóir]

Glad to see I'm not the only one with common sense around here.

It's funny how 14-year-olds who have sex with older men all think it's OK.

I have to say, I find the idea of 14s having sex with anyone at all, except MAYBE another 14, kind of distasteful. And the opportunities for exploitation of 14s are terrifyingly many. In fact, when it comes to adults vs. teenagers...adults have to exert themselves NOT to manipulate the teens by accident, if they have good intentions in the first place.

But all that said...the average 14-year-old gayboy would willingly have sex with a cement mixer if it had a dick. And some of them are pretty aggressive, even with older adults. The only correct move for an adult is to shut them down with great firmness, of course, but not everyone is that strong.

And then again, everyone I know who had sex with an adult at that age has said it was good, or (much more rarely) it was icky, but aside from blatant exploitation scenarios (trapped by the priest in the confessional and so on), none of them has blamed the older person. Granted, this could be self-justification, but it's pretty consistent.

I myself had sex with someone who was very old (could have been late forties to early sixties, what did I know) when I was 17. He was icky enough, I guess (I was the oldest person he'd ever had sex with), but I'm convinced I took no lasting harm from it. And I learned some important things, like being an adult doesn't necessarily mean you're mature. And I had some orgasms with another human being instead of by my own hand, which is not to be sneezed at at that age (and in that place and time--suburban Michigan in the 1970s). Overall I'd call it a win.

I come down on the same side as you do, on this: adults should not have sex with 14-year-olds (we might disagree on older adults and 18-year-olds, but I agree on 14s). But it's complex. A 14 is not an adult, but he's not a child either. A 14 has sexual desires of his own, and most 14s are teleiophiles - that is, they're attracted to adults. It was hard to even find the name of that one, because it's considered normal in our society.

So...it's normal for 14s to be attracted to adults, but creepy for adults to be attracted to 14s. There's something wrong with that; I can recognize it as irrational even though I share the feeling.

 

[youngnihilist]

When I was about 14 I had my first gay sexual encounter with an adult ... a guy who was in his 50's, in fact. He couldn't believe his luck in latching on to someone so young and I was more than happy about having a nice big grown up cock to suck on, so it was all good!

He couldn't believe his luck that he got a 14 year old? That's a sick pedophile. I don't know many adults who would feel lucky to get with a 14 year old. Even I wouldn't feel lucky if a 14 year old approached me, more like grossed out. I can get an older guy feeling lucky to get with a 24 year old, but 14, wtf

 

[altlover85]

Excellent post Cristoir!

 

[asu1117]

So...it's normal for 14s to be attracted to adults, but creepy for adults to be attracted to 14s. There's something wrong with that; I can recognize it as irrational even though I share the feeling.

There's something wrong with adults that are attracted to children being considered creepy?

I don't think so. I recognize that fourteen year olds have sexual feelings, but that doesn't justify an adult being attracted to one.

My sister is fourteen years old and I see a lot of her friends around our house when i'm at home. I couldn't even imagine being attracted to one of them. They're kids, even if they're going through puberty, they are still kids.

Not to mention it's illegal. And for good reason.

 

[Críostóir]

There's something wrong with adults that are attracted to children being considered creepy?

I don't think so. I recognize that fourteen year olds have sexual feelings, but that doesn't justify an adult being attracted to one.

My sister is fourteen years old and I see a lot of her friends around our house when i'm at home. I couldn't even imagine being attracted to one of them. They're kids, even if they're going through puberty, they are still kids.

Not to mention it's illegal. And for good reason.

There's something wrong with the assymmetry of OKness on attraction. NOT on the actual sex.

 

[altlover85]

After rereading Cristoir's post, I realize I read it wrong. I thought he was saying there was something wrong with adults being attracted to 14 year olds, but he was actually saying the opposite.

I definitely agree with you that teenagers have sexual feelings. I know I really wanted to get with some of my teachers, but never was approached to.

As to whether or not the attraction itself should be okay or not, as long as you don't act on it, it's really none of anyone's business.

 

[NineOfClubs]

That would probably be myself.

 

[honooryuu]

my bf. hes 9 years older than i am.

 

[healingduck]

What people need to realize is there is a difference between attraction, and acting on it. I don't necessarily think people are right in the head if they are attracted to younger people. However it is 100% their choice whether to act on it or not. Common sense(and the law) would tell them not to.

 

[Relax2282]

as far as age goes, early 50's.

as far as age gap goes, 35 yrs.

 

[BigChicken]

The oldest man with whom I ever had sex was 38... younger than I am now. God, that's depressing.

Ha! Everyone will get here eventually, if they are lucky enough to live this long.

My current fuck buddy is 58. I just turned 42. And we mainly do oral sex. Beggars can't be choosy. But, it is still a lot more fun than just watching porn dvds and masturbating all by myself. Let me tell you that.

Would I prefer to have sex with a younger guy. Of course. But I will take what I can get at this point.

And the best place to meet guys at my age level is at the local gay bars. Fortunately, there is a pretty good gay bar within easy walking distance to my house. And the key is to have realistic expectations. If there is someone there at or above my age and in similar shape-- a bit on the fat side-- then I have a shot with them. So, I just go up to them and strike up a conversation and see where that leads me. About 40% of the time it actually works, and I end up with a little bit of nasty fun that night. It depends upon how desperate they are.

When it doesn't work, hey at least I tried, and I usually get to see some genuine eye candy by watching some of the younger guys dance. So, it's still a fun evening for me. Sometimes if I get drunk enough, I even get up and do Karaoke, and I get a lot of laughs, which is fun for me.

I don't even try online dating anymore. I don't get any serious interest online anymore, other than people trying to scam me out of money.

 

[blackbeltninja]

The oldest was 39 when I was 33, this past May. The youngest was 18 when I was 21 back in '97.

The biggest age gap was 9 years - him 24 and me 33 back in July.

-d-

 

[Ultra Blue]

Pretty much the first thing I did when I turned 15 was to have sex with this 32-year old guy I've been seeing for a while.
Yeah, maybe it was a bit creepy for a 32-year old to be seeing a 15-year old, but I can't blame him. I was quite far developed physically and mentally for my age.
Just so you know, 15 is the legal age in Sweden.

Inb4 people telling me I was just sexually confused or whatever, I did what I felt was right.

 

[G-Lexington]

My partner, who's 3 years older than me. I had sex with one guy years ago whose age I never found out, but I'm guessing he was younger than me at the time (25).

>>>I don't care if you wanted it or not. That makes me sick.

Sicker than having sex with someone over 40?

Lex

 

[Michiko]

45. He was fit and it was good, but I usually don't go over 25 or so -- I don't usually have casual sex, and I don't feel comfortable in a relationship with someone much older than I am. (I'm 21)