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OMG, He Emailed Me! - What To Do?

I'M FREE!! I'M FREE!!

I just send Rob one last email saying how I didn't appreciate his faux kindness and leading me on thinking he was genuinely interested in me as a person. I wrote that I respected his decision to not want to talk to me again, but I appreciated his past acts of kindness. Lastly, I said that I would never contact him again by IM, email, or phone call. I also told him to not treat other people this way and just be upfront and honest if he doesn't like someone, platonically (me) or romantically.

Then I blocked his email address from my two email accounts. Done.

And I think he just sent me a voicemail on my mobile, but I'm not listening to it. I don't want to hear what he has to say.

I feel a weight has been lifted from me. I feel liberated now. I should have done this months ago.

I finally feel relieved! :D
 
I'm sorry if this sounds cruel but I think you have both had a narrow escape. I speak as someone who often fails to respond to messages, usually because I forget or I don't get them in time to give a meaningful response. Fortunately my friends know me for who I am and don't take it personally. I let them get away with the same thing as well. We all need our space in this world of constant chatter.
 
InnovativeBoxx, ummm i don't know.

I think you treat this sort of communications too seriously.
Rejections are normal. Try to reverse your thinking about all the rejections by saying, its their problems and its their lost, and find someone else. you will be fine.

I think you are abit childish by blocking or deleting emails. Why not just keep all the emails and forget about it.

Again, treat all rejections by saying oh well, its their lost, their problems and not yours.


One more thing, 1 guy is not enough to chat, instant message, emails with. Try to find as many guys as possible. How to find guys is up to you i guess. :)
 
Telstra said:
One more thing, 1 guy is not enough to chat, instant message, emails with. Try to find as many guys as possible. How to find guys is up to you i guess. :)
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Wow. Jeez, if someone had told me that months ago, I probably wouldn't have been in that mess to begin with.

Thanks for the advice! I know what to do now.
 
InnovativeBoxx said:
Wow. Jeez, if someone had told me that months ago, I probably wouldn't have been in that mess to begin with.

Thanks for the advice! I know what to do now.
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You are welcome. Many will say NO (rejection) but a few will say YES. If a few multiply by many times, you will have lots of fun don't you.

Glad i can help. ;)
 
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