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Omg, sex with my best friend...

Maccabee

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Omg omg omg, I just had sex with my best friend. I'm now living in a new city and he wanted to see my room. We drank a lot of beer and rosé... Then he wanted to see my dick and things went further. We had sex...
I recently came out to my friends as bisexual and he was immediately very "interested". He has a girlfriend and that's what I really do not understand.
I liked it, but I did not get hard at first. This was my second experience with a boy and the first time I did not get hard immediately either... So I'm really doubting whether I am gay. If I would be gay or bi, am I supposed to be immediately arroused? I just don't know... Emotionally, I am attracted to boys, but I am really not sure whether this is just something messed up in my head or that I really like boys sexually.
This experience just only makes me more unsure...
If anyone has any comments, please do give some input!
 
>>>If I would be gay or bi, am I supposed to be immediately arroused?

I'll let you answer your own question. "We drank a lot of beer and rosé."

>>>He has a girlfriend and that's what I really do not understand.

Not understand why he did it, or not understand why you did it?

Lex
 
Alcohol and nervousness tends to hamper erections.

Lexington's question is very important. Why he did it or why you did it?
 
Just_Believe18 said:
Alcohol and nervousness tends to hamper erections.

Lexington's question is very important. Why he did it or why you did it?
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I did it because of the booze I think... I also noticed some hints before and perhaps I wanted to know if he was serious.
But the main thing is just that it makes me doubt again about my sexuality. I just don't know anymore...
 
Next time do not have any beer and see what happens. I think you were so excited to find out that your friend was interested. But I think the beers were talking too. How much do you really remember? Did you pass out or sleep together afterward as well? What was the reaction in the morning or when you were both sober? Sorry for the questions. Just wondering what he thought. I think time will help you out. Good luck.
 
Sorry, but alcohol doesn't create feelings or desires. It just lessens inhibitions. Basically, you just became more open to sex with your friend after drinking. There was obviously some sort of interest there or it wouldn't have happened.
 
drhladnjak said:
Sorry, but alcohol doesn't create feelings or desires. It just lessens inhibitions. Basically, you just became more open to sex with your friend after drinking. There was obviously some sort of interest there or it wouldn't have happened.
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*nods in agreement*

Unfortunately, alcohol makes the mind more willing but has the opposite effect on other body parts- ergo the term "liquor dick".
 
I did not want him to sleep with me, so he went home. Of course there was some tension that probably has to do more with the fact that he wanted to do things with me. I think I like that attention.
Physically I am not attracted to him at all. Honestly, I think I can only have sex with someone who I love. That probably is also on of the reason why I did not get hard immediately, besides the liquor.
 
Maccabee said:
Honestly, I think I can only have sex with someone who I love. That probably is also on of the reason why I did not get hard immediately, besides the liquor.
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(*8*)(*8*) Congratulations mate... you just learned a little more about what makes you tick.

Now stop beating yourself up... you're love and desire to be with someone intimately comes from love and emotion... not just sex. Its a great characteristic and something that you should feel proud of... its part of who you are and its something worth knowing.

Next time you are with someone you love for, care about and are passionate about, someone that loves you, relaxes you and calms you, you can be pretty certain you wont have the same drama again... trust me.
 
Maccabee said:
I did not get hard at first...
...So I'm really doubting whether I am gay.
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i was the same the first time

don't worry man it happens to lots of guys. doesn't mean you don't like guys. you'll see, one day when you've got someone you'll be horny as fuck, and you'll be hard in no time
 
Thanks guys for all your comments. Indeed I have learned that I just don't like plain sex without emotions. Sometimes when you look around in the world, it seems that that is rare. But I'm glad that you guys understand me.
If only I would just find the right person now... :)
 
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