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omg...what should i do?

EricCage said:
Please don't get your hope up too much as much of this has been going on in your head and heart and not actually with M. Alow down and wait till you actually meet with him and have a chance to talk.

You cna enquire what tiem he gets off work and have some coffee together!
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sucks and thats true...it has been in my head, but i gott a do something b4 i grad in june. and college in august.
 
Man, don't wait too long on this. If there is something between you two, you may miss your chance. The next time you see him just say something like "We should hang out some time to catch up on things" and give him your number. you don't need to ask for his, cause if he wants to see you, he will call you. If he does end up calling you, ask him if he'd like to come over and watch a movie, or maybe go see something new at the theater. Idealy getting him alone would be best if you are hoping he will confess anything, but in case he is not ready to hang out in private yet, give him the option of a public place. Remember, don't seem desperate, but make sure you seem interested in seeing him.
 
thanks alot. i was going through a tough time these last two months...but saturday is the day!!! wish me luck.
 
joaz_az_az_az said:
thanks alot. i was going through a tough time these last two months...but saturday is the day!!! wish me luck.
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Yeah bro...You definitely need to just come out and ask him to do something with you. Like maybe if their is a good movie coming out this weekend ask him.
Be like : "Hey whats up?" "How have you been?" "thats great" "so i'm going to see that new movie (insert title here). I hear its fucking awesome!" he says something here. Then you say" Hey I was just going to go with my friend Joe, would you like to go with us?" THen if he says yes. Your golden. Then Joe is unable to go because there really is no Joe and you guys are alone and get to talk and hang out and maybe something can finally happen. : )

nate..|
 
natedogg323 said:
Yeah bro...You definitely need to just come out and ask him to do something with you. Like maybe if their is a good movie coming out this weekend ask him.
Be like : "Hey whats up?" "How have you been?" "thats great" "so i'm going to see that new movie (insert title here). I hear its fucking awesome!" he says something here. Then you say" Hey I was just going to go with my friend Joe, would you like to go with us?" THen if he says yes. Your golden. Then Joe is unable to go because there really is no Joe and you guys are alone and get to talk and hang out and maybe something can finally happen. : )

nate..|
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gee thanks:D
i am still nervous about him and all, and
im still nervous about getting involved with any guy right now,
but i really care and i dont want to regret this a year from now.
 
joaz_az_az_az said:
gee thanks:D
i am still nervous about him and all, and
im still nervous about getting involved with any guy right now,
but i really care and i dont want to regret this a year from now.
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Well its not really getting involved with a guy when you don't even know if he really is into you or not? If you stand back and watch from a distance for much longer he's just going to think your stalking him and he's going to think your creepy. Just do it and either way you won't have anything to regret. If nothing else you might gain a really good friend.

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natedogg323 said:
Well its not really getting involved with a guy when you don't even know if he really is into you or not? If you stand back and watch from a distance for much longer he's just going to think your stalking him and he's going to think your creepy. Just do it and either way you won't have anything to regret. If nothing else you might gain a really good friend.

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true but i dont want to get my hopes up just to have em crushed again. but hey, tomorrows the day, i only live once. i gotta do or die. haha. i just hope things go my way...
 
I have an update...with a twist!!!

I went to walmart tonight...but micheal wasnt there.

Oh well. I got over it.

My friend and I were driving around when I get a text--from my friend lina. it says " do u like seth...he'd be good for you!"

anyway, rewind:

lina is my best friends zacs girl. i used to really want zac but lina became my friend and was desperately in love with him. so i went out with the both of them to applebees and they ended together (he got out of a bad ltr for her). i stepped aside and set em up, and now they are in love.

but anyways, the night we went out we all met up @ applebees and zac brought his buddy seth along. i hadnt met him before and thruout the night he was pretty cool. he sat next to me in the booth but we didnt truly speak. we left the restaurant and went to walmart to mess around and then went back to applebees parking lot to chill (it was like 1 am). zac and lina were flirting in the front seat and seth and i were in the back. we talked a little..and then he put his hand to mine to 'compare'. and then we talked somemore and then i drove home.

that was like 3 weeks ago. a wk ago he left a comment on my myspace saying he wanted to hang and maybe come over. then he invited me to stay the night.
(keep in mind id only met him once). i agreed (it was supposed to b today) but my car had some trouble so i had to cancel.

then tonight i got that text, and a bunch more. seems like seth asked lina after applebees if i "was into men" because he wanted to "get with me". he came out to zac and lina just like yesterday and asked if i was into him. (only lina knows ive done anything with guys). hes into me...and i really really like him.

i realized something. i need to stop hoping for love and wanting something to be.
my friend mickey gave me good advice when she said not to look for love; let it find you. i think thats what i was doing wit mike, but i let go three months ago. and she was right. love found me.

and hes just a call away.
 
joaz_az_az_az said:
I have an update...with a twist!!!

I went to walmart tonight...but micheal wasnt there.

Oh well. I got over it.

My friend and I were driving around when I get a text--from my friend lina. it says " do u like seth...he'd be good for you!"

anyway, rewind:

lina is my best friends zacs girl. i used to really want zac but lina became my friend and was desperately in love with him. so i went out with the both of them to applebees and they ended together (he got out of a bad ltr for her). i stepped aside and set em up, and now they are in love.

but anyways, the night we went out we all met up @ applebees and zac brought his buddy seth along. i hadnt met him before and thruout the night he was pretty cool. he sat next to me in the booth but we didnt truly speak. we left the restaurant and went to walmart to mess around and then went back to applebees parking lot to chill (it was like 1 am). zac and lina were flirting in the front seat and seth and i were in the back. we talked a little..and then he put his hand to mine to 'compare'. and then we talked somemore and then i drove home.

that was like 3 weeks ago. a wk ago he left a comment on my myspace saying he wanted to hang and maybe come over. then he invited me to stay the night.
(keep in mind id only met him once). i agreed (it was supposed to b today) but my car had some trouble so i had to cancel.

then tonight i got that text, and a bunch more. seems like seth asked lina after applebees if i "was into men" because he wanted to "get with me". he came out to zac and lina just like yesterday and asked if i was into him. (only lina knows ive done anything with guys). hes into me...and i really really like him.

i realized something. i need to stop hoping for love and wanting something to be.
my friend mickey gave me good advice when she said not to look for love; let it find you. i think thats what i was doing wit mike, but i let go three months ago. and she was right. love found me.

and hes just a call away.
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Wow great twist. Well said! Let love find you...Now I have a couple of questions: So Zac was str8 but you had a crush on him and he didn't know? Or how is that? And is Seth bi or gay?
 
joaz_az_az_az said:
I have an update...with a twist!!!


and hes just a call away.
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Cool man. Good luck. Go for it, and forget this whole Mike thing...I think you need to move on with this guy.....

I'm glad things seem to be working themselves out....:gogirl:

But you know where to come for some friendly advice :=D:
 
innocentbychoice said:
Wow great twist. Well said! Let love find you...Now I have a couple of questions: So Zac was str8 but you had a crush on him and he didn't know? Or how is that? And is Seth bi or gay?
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I did have a crush on zac but now I'm into Seth. Tomorrow we are going to zacs to hang and watch some videos...and finally get some time together. We've been talking on the phone everyday and iming since i found out. It's really cool. Hes supercute and sweet and I can't wait to be with him..in that way.
 
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