Long story short:
I got a phone call from someone that noticed me at work one day. I am part of management (this day, I remember accepting his application) for a restaurant. He didn't speak with me a/b a job, but with the store owner. So, the first meeting went as normal.....yet, he came back a 2nd time (apparently, my boss said "no") and it was a 2nd encounter.
Anyway, the phone call came at random; he told me I was the "very nice guy" who gave him a glass of sweet tea while he waited. He goes on to say that he found me interesting enough to get personal. So, I jotted his number down (b/c he had something else to tell me "when I could be myself") and called him after my shift.
Here's the "hairy" part (tee-hee)....I assumed it is a hook-up (I usually don't, but a 9 month dry spell had me DESPERATE!). Honestly, I remembered NOTHING about him (a dangerous game, I know). The next thing I know-I ended up in his apartment having sex (the same day of the phone convo!)
My plan was a quickie and a "see-you-later"....but as we laid there in pre/post-coital bliss (not for me honestly) he wanted a "committed b-friend as well as a stable relationship"! And I haven't called him back since a week (last Thurs. night). I thought we were just messing around, but he's falling in love after ONE ENCOUNTER! Sorry for making this story "short", but what should I do next? He calls me at work incessantly and I can't spill the beans at my job! HELP!!!!!
I got a phone call from someone that noticed me at work one day. I am part of management (this day, I remember accepting his application) for a restaurant. He didn't speak with me a/b a job, but with the store owner. So, the first meeting went as normal.....yet, he came back a 2nd time (apparently, my boss said "no") and it was a 2nd encounter.
Anyway, the phone call came at random; he told me I was the "very nice guy" who gave him a glass of sweet tea while he waited. He goes on to say that he found me interesting enough to get personal. So, I jotted his number down (b/c he had something else to tell me "when I could be myself") and called him after my shift.
Here's the "hairy" part (tee-hee)....I assumed it is a hook-up (I usually don't, but a 9 month dry spell had me DESPERATE!). Honestly, I remembered NOTHING about him (a dangerous game, I know). The next thing I know-I ended up in his apartment having sex (the same day of the phone convo!)
My plan was a quickie and a "see-you-later"....but as we laid there in pre/post-coital bliss (not for me honestly) he wanted a "committed b-friend as well as a stable relationship"! And I haven't called him back since a week (last Thurs. night). I thought we were just messing around, but he's falling in love after ONE ENCOUNTER! Sorry for making this story "short", but what should I do next? He calls me at work incessantly and I can't spill the beans at my job! HELP!!!!!
Here's an update: