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Online hook ups. Legit and cheating

coolfactor79

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So what's the thoughts from other people. If you chat with someone sexually online obviously you're not having real sex, but is it still legit.

Also if you were in a relationship with someone would you all consider that cheating?
 
This is something to be worked out between the two people in the relationship. Secrets in a relationship generally are detrimental.
 
There's no formula. Context is everything. I have no idea what you mean by "legit" here, but as for cheating, it's only cheating if you do it for more than just casual fun. Like, if it fulfills some need your partner doesn't, or if it's a prelude to doing something more.
 
Nobody mentioned hiding anything. And why would you hide something like that if you have no guilt about it? Which implies you were just doing it for fun of course. If it meant more than that and you feel the need to hide it, then yeah, it is definitely cheating.
 
So what's the thoughts from other people. If you chat with someone sexually online obviously you're not having real sex, but is it still legit.

Also if you were in a relationship with someone would you all consider that cheating?

It's the wrong question.

The question should be, "Why am I hiding the behind my partner's back and will it damage my relationship when he finds out?".
 
How about we agree that if your are saying things to someone online that you would not be saying if your boyfriend were sitting next to you hearing everything you say then you have probably crossed some line you shouldn't have.
 
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