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Only desiring straight?
The relevence to the thread is that where I live, I don't know one masculin gay guy. Well, I know one, but he's emotionally unstable.

How would I feel if somebody found out I was gay before I told them? It has happened once. It didn't bother me. One of the guys in one of my groups on campus noticed that I didn't actively approach females like most men, and he asked me, so I told him. Another girl asked me if I was gay last summer, but that doesn't really count, because apparently she asks everybody haha. But purely on the straight-acting. I guess I still wouldn't care. I'm not the most masculin guy in the world, and certain things I do in my life may give it away to some people. But overall, I don't see how somebody could be more than 10-20% sure with me. That's just the way I am, no acting required. I mean, it took my best friend in college 3 years to figure out...
 
youfiad said:
I don't think there's anything wrong with being feminin, I have many feminin gay friends. But it's not what I look for in a relationship. I like to play sports, play video games and do "straight" things. I don't like shopping, or any female things, and I don't want my sexuality be my defining quality.
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YES!! I feel the same way, except I'm not into sports or video games.
 
i feel like this is my exact issue. the person i fell for was a normal dude. we had a weird thing from the get-go, but otherwise we were just great friends. in the aftermath, im totally lost.

ive actually talked to a couple very close friends about my current situation. both were shellshocked. no one would see this coming from me. both of these girls have known me forever, one of which ive banged a few times. interestingly, despite my admittance, both seem to reject the idea that i might be gay. the one ive had relations with has several gay friends. even with her experience with this stuff, she just dismissed me as just always being a very sexual person.
 
Sounds like you're all setting yourselves up for a lifetime of disappointment. Let go of your insecurities and allow yourself to be happy.
 
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