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Origins of bisexuality?

My personal beliefs revolve around the generic Pagan beliefs. I'm not Wiccan, I'm Pagan. That being said, when we die, we come back. If I'm male in this life and I come back female, I believe there is residual leftovers from the previous life.

That being said, the scientists are right in that we are born that way but they are also wrong because we have a choice to suppress one desire or another. It just depends on how strong that residue from the last life is.

As we cycle through our lives, we evolve and grow. When we evolve enough, we begin to see life for what it is and not what it is supposed to be. The difference between the guy who only hunts for food and the guy who only hunts for sport is a good example of this evolution.

On a totally off the wall topic, I'm watching Family Guy as I type this and the dog Brian is sitting on the porch with Clevland and Clevland asks Brian, "Can you identify a genital wart?"

Somehow, I don't think that would be a good line to use when trying to get your straight friend to look at your package!
 
For me I think my bisexuality comes from my open mindedness, loneliness, and being horny. While I prefer women I am unable to get women and its fun to do stuff with guys.
 
I do not believe in Gay , Straight, Bi etc ... all the darn Lables that society wants to place on all of us ....

Why can't we all just be called "SEXUAL BEINGS" and as long as we are of LEGAL Age ; everyone else mind their own "Da*m" businesss about who we sleep and / or Have sex with .... ?
 
For the original question, for me, it was a combination of several things:

A girl in my neighborhood introduced me to "sex" when I was around five years old (I assume she had been molested by an adult or older child) giving me an unhealthy fascination with something I really didn't understand.

Sexual repression from being raised in a strict religious family where sex was so taboo it was taught merely as a "bad thing you should never do except after marriage."

My unexpected discovery of masturbation--I had no idea about orgasms when I had my first one and it blew me away.

I know there are a ton of other factors, but somewhere along the way my masturbation fantasies began focusing on my male friends as much as on girls and I went with whatever turned me on the most at the moment.

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As for what attracts me to guys versus girls, that is harder to answer.

Girls are sexy and sleek, smooth and soft, pleasing to look at and mysterious in their inner workings (sorry girls, I have no idea what the hell goes in in those minds of yours, nothing logical that I've ever seen ;)). They are comforting and emotionally receptive and tend to accept intimate (not sexual) contact much more readily than guys do. Oh, and they make the most incredible noises when they are experiencing pleasure/passion :D

Guys...I am one, so I understand them. You can always tell what they want, you can always tell when they have achieved orgasm. Guys that I am attracted to are guys that I see some of myself in. Strong and independent but with insecurities they let slip out around their close friends. Despite that it is the guys that I can't figure out easily that keep my attention.

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And for the whole labels thing. I don't get people who hate labels. Humans don't like chaos or the unknown. We like things to be neat and organized. We label our food, we label our clothes, we have labels for ourselves already--our names. Labels serve a purpose, they are not evil, they are not racist or bigots.

When someone asks if you are gay or straight and you spend fifteen minutes explaining to them how you "don't like labels and we are all just sexual beings who need to fulfill our passions..." you will sound pretentious and self-important. And you will draw more attention to the feature of yourself you are trying not to be categorized by.

If you spend fifteen minutes explaining that you like pineapple on first being introduced to someone, you will forever in the other person's mind be the person who really likes pineapple. Why not simply say, I like men and women, and since we have a word specifically tailored to that definition, it makes it really easy--"I am bisexual."
 
Random dude said:
Well, it isn't just straight people who give bisexuals shit. Gay people do it too. I don't know why. You'd think they'd be the last people in the world who would do that.
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Most gay men hjave had a bi man "pretend" to love them only to have them run back to a women...and for some....they turn that into "all bisexuals are just lookign to get their rocks off with a guy before they run back to a women" syndrome. Generalization-Rationale to cope with their hurt...it isn't right...but they seem to think it is okay.
 
With regard to those who one finds compatible as friends, I have never attempted to assess their sexual orientation. By the time I finished high school I had had a a long term relationship with a new guy in town. Both of us considered ourselves to be pretty regular guys, but as our friendship developed we found ourselves on the path to full sexual relationship, a transforming experience for both of us. I had two other long term relationships with men, one in college and one in my first years of employment; both were innocents when it came to sex but both were wonderful men and loving partners. In those days we were all expected to marry and we all did. My teen partner and I have been happily married men, but the two others were married and divorced after a short time. They simply found that they were unable to be content, satisfied and fulfilled sexually im traditional marriage. Before I finally married I had two long term relationships with women. Whatever the sex of my partner, I and my partners were always faithful. I prefer to call myself ambisexual and by that I simply mean that I have found that I am a person who can sustain long term and fully sexual relationships with both men and women--never concurrently. I am glad to know that about myself but I do not think it would be helpful for others to know that. Sex to me should be considered private and personal. What happens between two consenting adults is their business. I am content to have the world see me as I appear to them. They are free to make any judgments they wish, but I will not confuse them by telling them what I know about my own sexuality.

 
With regard to those who one finds compatible as friends, I have never attempted to assess their sexual orientation. By the time I finished high school I had had a a long term relationship with a new guy in town. Both of us considered ourselves to be pretty regular guys, but as our friendship developed we found ourselves on the path to full sexual relationship, a transforming experience for both of us. I had two other long term relationships with men, one in college and one in my first years of employment; both were innocents when it came to sex but both were wonderful men and loving partners. In those days we were all expected to marry and we all did. My teen partner and I have been happily married men, but the two others were married and divorced after a short time. They simply found that they were unable to be content, satisfied and fulfilled sexually im traditional marriage. Before I finally married I had two long term relationships with women. Whatever the sex of my partner, I and my partners were always faithful. I prefer to call myself ambisexual and by that I simply mean that I have found that I am a person who can sustain long term and fully sexual relationships with both men and women--never concurrently. I am glad to know that about myself but I do not think it would be helpful for others to know that. Sex to me should be considered private and personal. What happens between two consenting adults is their business. I am content to have the world see me as I appear to them. They are free to make any judgments they wish, but I will not confuse them by telling them what I know about my own sexuality.
 
Hello everyone, New to and awkward with computers. Having grown up in the 50s-60s, I am continually amazed at not only the communication technology of today but also the ability to freely exchange opinions and ideas on world forums. Reading these intelligent and thought provoking posts reminds me,in a profound way, how much our society has changed for the better. Hope I don't sound too dramatic here but we surely have come a long way from the Leave It to Beaver days. Take into consideration that homosexual behavior in the 50s-60s was considered by law and socity to be antisocial criminal behavior. Think of the effect this had on the individual coming out of the closet for the first time. Anyway, I have enjoyed reading all of your posts and hope I might have something to contribute in the future. peace
 
i don't know the origins but i'd say that it stems from people just loving sex and being open about it. the thing i'm curious about is bisexuality and falling in love. i'm emotionally connected to girls but i can't feel that for guys. like with my gf we fuck and we make love. with dudes i just fuck 'em but feel nothing else.
 
Sex is a wonderful way of confirming the bond of love that exists between two persons.

If those two persons happen to be of the same sex our society still does not provide too much in the way of recognition of that bond; marriage is still beyond the reach of such persons in most states.

Many men find that the sex of the partner is of less importance than the depth and quaility of the relationship.

Life demands choices and we tend to honor those who remain faithful to those choices. It is the married man who strays to satisfy his desire for
m2m sex will be called a cheater. He may even excuse himself by telling himself, "i just fuck "em but feel nothing else."

Why do I get the feeling that something is missing?
 
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