Ouch..think I've lost my friend

[walkabout]

Yesterday me and my friend kissed.

I had a crush on my flat mate for some time whom I dont know if he is gay or not and doesnt really matter to me anymore as he is an awesome friend...i got over it totally. But yesterday we went out drinking and we were totally wasted by the time we were going to our 8th pub..we were doing piggy back [thats when u carry someone else on ur back like u wud by holding his legs around ur hips and him grabbing ur shoulders] all the way back to Lloyd's [the pub we were going to] so we were a bit slow and our friends went on ahead to meet us there...he scrambled down my back and lost his balance..i gave him a hand and when he stood up I dont know how/why/what the fuck happened but i kissed him...he dint push me back or anything...and then we just started laughing.. in the morning he was quite silent [dont know if he even remembered it or not] and then went home for christmas break without even saying proper good bye...dont know if i should text him or not to ask if he is ok..I wont be meeting him till late january....damn this is stupid

 

[JackFTwist]

don't text him don't do anything

if he remembers and is embarrassed talking to him about it will make it worse and you will lose a friend

if he does not remember and it would embarrass him why bring it up

if he does remember and is fine with it - or dosn;t remember and is better off not knowing - just leave it alone

guys fuck things up by having to "resolve" everything right away which only makes things worse

just leave it alone and lt work itself out in its own time

 

[SilverRRCloud]

I'd leave it as it is.

Not a biggie.

I do not think, you lost a friend just because you kissed him. Makes hardly any sense. You were drunk, and every dude, who is as physically close to you as to let you piggyback him, ought to be able to survive a kiss... IMHO, that is.

SC

 

[AdmiraalW238]

don't text him don't do anything

if he remembers and is embarrassed talking to him about it will make it worse and you will lose a friend

if he does not remember and it would embarrass him why bring it up

if he does remember and is fine with it - or dosn;t remember and is better off not knowing - just leave it alone

guys fuck things up by having to "resolve" everything right away which only makes things worse

just leave it alone and lt work itself out in its own time

Without a doubt...just leave it alone and it will work itself out

 

[Love_chair]

yeah like the others said I would just give it some time am sure he's still your friend I mean it's not like you tried to have sex with him or anything it was just a simple kiss nothing else and nothing to worry about don't get stressed over nothing

 

[Art1eJ]

Leave it wait to see if he brings something up i'd just put it out of sight out of mind the time apart will do you's both good

 

[walkabout]

funny thing happened..he texted me [he doesnt know I am not straight] and said sorry for what happened that night and said he was too drunk to understand anything. I just replied saying 'no worries ..but next time we shudnt do it in middle of the city center' and laughed...now everything is back to normal..cheers for the help guys
hugs

 

[tallguy297]

funny thing happened..he texted me [he doesnt know I am not straight] and said sorry for what happened that night and said he was too drunk to understand anything. I just replied saying 'no worries ..but next time we shudnt do it in middle of the city center' and laughed...now everything is back to normal..cheers for the help guys
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Thats great Walkabout!!! I'm glad everything sorted itself out with you guys!!! Good friends are hard to find!!!

Its funny though... alcohol plays tricks on the smartest people and it just goes to show that the simplest thing gets taken so badly... it sounds like he thought he kissed you? So heres both of you thinking you had screwed up over the same thing...

He is a good friend Walkabout to front up first... thats a great sign! You obviously mean a lot to each other!

 

[walkabout]

Thats great Walkabout!!! I'm glad everything sorted itself out with you guys!!! Good friends are hard to find!!!

Its funny though... alcohol plays tricks on the smartest people and it just goes to show that the simplest thing gets taken so badly... it sounds like he thought he kissed you? So heres both of you thinking you had screwed up over the same thing...

He is a good friend Walkabout to front up first... thats a great sign! You obviously mean a lot to each other!

Ye we are quite close considering we met only 18 months ago...he is a great person not counting the fact that he is extremely cute..but i wud have lusted after him even if he was fugly..he just makes u feel warm and comfortable..I am so glad it was sorted and now i just look back and laugh at the stupid incident..btw it was a good kiss

 

[AdmiraalW238]

I am pleased that it all worked out for you...good luck with the future...just remember, if you cant be good, be careful

 

[walkabout]

He came back today from the christmas break ..and I am feeling fucking weird and self conscious again to see him again....gonna go get drunk to get over it now..wish he hadnt come back so early [uni lectures start on 28th] dont want to have those feelings again i tried so hard to get ocer..over the christmas break

 

[KaraBulut]

and I am feeling fucking weird and self conscious again to see him again.... dont want to have those feelings again i tried so hard to get ocer..


Hmmm.


Then the problem is not your flatmate's feelings, is it?

 

[rareboy]

gonna go get drunk to get over it now..

I take it you plan on being drunk the entire term?

 

[RukkuS]

I take it you plan on being drunk the entire term?

sometimes after two really good friends take a long break from eachother, it's a little tense at first. A good couple of beers and you two begin to loosen up and everything is backk to normal. I just recently met up with a friend who I had known since middle school, yet we havent seen eachother in 4 years. It was awkward at first given the fact that we used to hang out everyday at school....although, a couple of beers later we were laughing and reminiscing about the good days. Of course, this can be done without alcohol, but it takes a little more time.

I doubt the tension is due to the kiss, im sure it's just because you two have been seperated from eachother for all of winter break and your so excited to come back to see eachother yet, you don't want to really express it. Have a couple beers and loosen up and things will be back to normal in no time.

 

[MaxMouse]

^Agreed...

Getting TRASHED is always a solution!

 

[orton86]

Yeah the first time hanging out after a long break is always awkward. I wonder what happened tonight with them...

 

[walkabout]

Yeah the first time hanging out after a long break is always awkward. I wonder what happened tonight with them...

It went alright i guess...i didnt want to be too drunk as there were tennis matches on tv later at night which i wanted to watch..i sadly spent half of my time staring at him wondering how good he looked...damn was wierd

 

[TygreBryte]

sometimes, getting really trashed is NOT the answer....

 

[benlemieux2003]

I got red alert lights flashing on that one. Keep control.