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I've been married with kids for over 30 years. About 3 years ago my wife found a text of mine about having sex with men. As a kid I would play with girls and discreetly guys. She has been pretty good about it. I have never cheated on her and told her I never would but only if she joined me in a 3some. Anyone have any advice on taking her into a 3some?
 
how do u mean she has taken it well? Is she happy for u to play with men? If so then maybe bring up the convo with her that u would rather do it with her at the same time.
 
Your post is very confusing. You're asking for advice, after three years? "I have never cheated on her and told her I never would but only if she joined me in a 3some." So you're telling her that you ARE going to cheat, if she doesn't join in, with you, in a three some? And if she's been "pretty good about it" . . . . . . What's the problem??
 
This has the power to irrevocably damage your marriage if it hasn't already.
 
I was exactly where you are. These are your desires, not hers. If she has no desire for a threesome, don't pressure her. Tell her your desires, and why yiu think you gave them, then let it sit for a while. Its a lot for a spouse to digest, especially after 30 years.
 
mikey3000 said:
I was exactly where you are. These are your desires, not hers. If she has no desire for a threesome, don't pressure her. Tell her your desires, and why yiu think you gave them, then let it sit for a while. Its a lot for a spouse to digest, especially after 30 years.
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Thanks for the advice your right these are my desires and not hers I'll just give it time. How did it work out for you?
 
I have been married for over thirty years and used to have a good sex life, but prior to getting married was mostly gay and in fact was thrown out of the army for having a gay relationship, i wanted to be 'normal' so much but have had real yearnings lately for the gay life, i have started crossdressing and masturbate to femboy and shemale porn and my wife has found out as well she is not happy so we will see how things go
 
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