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My wife asked to borrow my cell phone to look something up, She saw some gaysites on the browser with autofill. She said "so that's what your doing" and hasn't really spoken to me since yesterday. I haven't said anything. I just took back the phone, deleted the browser (I think) and have sort of ignored her. What should I say or do. She's a homophobe
 
Tell her the truth. It's out in the open now. This is your chance to get some truth into your relationship.
 
JUst be honest and hope she understands.

What ever is going to happen is going to happen , nothing to stop it know. She knows, and if you dont clear things up she will go into wild thoughts and make things worse.

You could also lie and say you saw a friend and he showed you some pic's and from there and you forgot about it.

But then you are continuing the lie and we all know the lie's just grow and grow.. and there is no stopping them..
 
You're probably screwed. Might as well talk to her about it or one day you're gonna wake up and she's gonna be gone with all her shit. If you even want to try to salvage the relationship, your best bet is to talk to her before she takes off.
 
Do you still care for your wife? Do you want to be with her?

It's just porn man. She has to understand and come around.

But is this a deeper issue than porn? Do you have a desire to leave your wife for another man, is she not fulfilling for you? Those are the questions you have to be asking yourself. And mixed-orientation relationships CAN work.
 
you need to do whats in your heart. but I suggest talking to her about it, or just dropping it and try to get on with your life with her, if it doesn't work then talk about it.
 
It might be a good idea to pose this question to her. If you two love each other the future begins with a calm and caring conversation.
 
Relationships go through so many tests. This is a fairly big one, but it'll show you something about how resilient you two are. Plus, she needs to know sexuality can be pretty damn complicated if she doesn't know that already.
 
You could say that you've "been curious." This will make discussing it easier. Once that's out in the open you are free to reveal just how curious you've been.

I wish you the best of luck. As stressful as this is, it must be a relief too that it's out there.
 
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