Painful sexual experiences

[Kulindahr]

I've seen all kinds of threads about sexual experiences on here, and they always make me think of the painful experiences I've had. I'm not ready to post my most painful in this open a place, but my second most painful was when a guy was nibbling on my balls and someone else bumped him... I'll leave the rest to your imagination.

This isn't frivolous; I'm hoping people can use it to be able to avoid situations that could hurt -- like, as a newbie, I need to know things!

 

[eddielee]

I was raped by a guy and he didn't use any lubrication. He had a very large cock and he just rammed it inside me. Two other guys held me so I couldn't get away. I was glad when the guy came.

 

[looseliam]

When my ex and I started dating a couple years back we were each others firsts. He sometimes forgot that I wasn't a woman and he couldn't just shove it in all quick. It knocked the wind out of me a few times. And of course, it was my fault I didn't want to have sex for a couple of days.

 

[sissyboy]

The most painful experience I ever had happened many years ago on my boyfriend's parent's waterbed. The mattress was pretty old,and not of the "waveless" variety. I went down on him, he was real into it and then a wave hit, forcing his cock way down my unsuspecting throat.I couldn't speak for a day or two and had a sore throat for about a week but no permanent damage.

All these years later, he and I laugh about it.When we bought our waterbed some years ago, we remembered it and paid the extra cash for a waveless mattress.I guess in it's own way, it was a learning experience.

 

[Swellegant]

Nor shall I be going down the ugly road of emotionally painful sex; but I think the most painful thing I can think of (and also one of the funniest) was with my first boyfriend, we were at a party at my friend's house and he wanted to have sex, so we went into the bathroom and got started... well, he decided he wanted to fuck me, and so we went through the cabinets looking for some kind of lubricant. All we could find was Noxema.

There's no love in Noxema, I'm here to tell you. But it was kind of nifty, once I got used to the burning, in a kinky kind of way.

Even more painful was that there were three people on the other side of the door listening, who reported the Noxema incident immediately to everyone at the party; when we exited the bathroom, the laughter was overwhelming. I couldn't show my face in Society for weeks.

 

[Kulindahr]

Well, there's the eMOtionally painful ones that don't need to be gone into at this point in time.

I was sort of hinting at that by my avoidance of my most painful -- which was both physically and emotionally devastating.

I guess so far I've learned to be careful of water beds, and Noxema...

any more stories/lessons?

 

[sweet_taboo]

A painful experience I had was the first time my friend's dad fucked me. I had been flirting with him and hinting that I wanted to do it with him for a long time. I had been having sex with boys in the neighborhood for a while and thought I was ready for this man. When the day FINALLY came, I wasn't as ready for his man-sized dick as I thought I was.....

We were in his bedroom --me on the bed, him standing above me. I watched as he smeared Vaseline on his dick and then rubbed some on my asshole. He slowly crawled between my legs pushing my legs up and back pinning them against my chest with his big body. I was so scared, but I wanted him so badly. I remember feeling his head against my hole for a brief moment then he pushed ALL the way in with one hard thrust. I screamed and cried for him to take it out, but he didn't. Instead, he lay on top of me with his huge dick deep inside my ass kissing me until it didn't hurt so much anymore. He continued to whisper between kisses that everything was going to be okay and that I needed to relax...that he would wait until I was ready. I relaxed as much as I could and whispered that I was ready.....

Then he fucked me like a madman for what seemed like hours. I was glad (and sad) when he finally came. I had never been fucked like that before...my ass was so sore. The next time we did it, he didn't push so hard and it didn't hurt so much.

 

[racrboi]

Physically painful, or emotionally painful? have had plenty of both.

Here's one I'll share with y'all:

A few years back I got it into my head that I wanted to get with my boyfriend's x. Hey, the dude was SOOO fine, & my bf had told me how great he was in bed. So i wanted to find out for myself. You know....get a little taste of that, see what he had going on.

So, finally, the opportunity came up. Me & the bf's ex are all getting down & dirty, ass grabbing each other, crotch grinding, etc., etc. We're both fully clothed, but both very obviously hard when I finally got my hand down his pants & grabbed ahold of the biggest piece of meat I'd ever seen. I swear I couldn't even get my hand all the way aroud it, it was so fat. And at this point I'm thinking "OMG What have I got myself into? What does he think he's gonna do with that thing?"

So we make our way to the bedroom, rip each other's clothes off, and I'm like just staring in disbelief at this dude's cock. Not all that long, maybe 6", but so fat you couldn't get your hand all the way around it. Well, of course, I wanted it....I just didn't know what to do with it!

Anyway...he wants to fuck me. LOL Yeah right! I'm like "Dude! if you can get that thing in me...go for it." I'm thoroughly convinced he'll never get it in. He gets all lubed up. Lubes me up. Then the motherfucker just shoves that monster right in! Never made any attempt whatsoever to be gentle... just plowed right into my hole. Yeah....it went in, but I thought I was going to die, it hurt so bad. He fucking stretched my hole out like it had never been stretched before.

So he fucks me till he gets his nut off, then pulls out. I was so relieved to have him outta me that I didn't even care that I hadn't gotten off. I was just grateful to have survived the ordeal.

He apparantly enjoyed it. Told me what a nice tight ass I had. I was just glad it was over.

Now I understand why my boyfriend is so good bottoming. If he could take that dude, anything else is easy!

 

[Kulindahr]

A painful experience I had was the first time my friend's dad fucked me. I had been flirting with him and hinting that I wanted to do it with him for a long time. I had been having sex with boys in the neighborhood for a while and thought I was ready for this man. When the day FINALLY came, I wasn't as ready for his man-sized dick as I thought I was.....

We were in his bedroom --me on the bed, him standing above me. I watched as he smeared Vaseline on his dick and then rubbed some on my asshole. He slowly crawled between my legs pushing my legs up and back pinning them against my chest with his big body. I was so scared, but I wanted him so badly. I remember feeling his head against my hole for a brief moment then he pushed ALL the way in with one hard thrust. I screamed and cried for him to take it out, but he didn't. Instead, he lay on top of me with his huge dick deep inside my ass kissing me until it didn't hurt so much anymore. He continued to whisper between kisses that everything was going to be okay and that I needed to relax...that he would wait until I was ready. I relaxed as much as I could and whispered that I was ready.....

Then he fucked me like a madman for what seemed like hours. I was glad (and sad) when he finally came. I had never been fucked like that before...my ass was so sore. The next time we did it, he didn't push so hard and it didn't hurt so much.

I haven't bottomed for anyone yet; this story doesn't exactly encourage me. I guess partly I just don't understand wanting anything going INto my rear instead of coming out.

I'm wondering, too, how old you were at the time.

 

[Lube]

I guess partly I just don't understand wanting anything going INto my rear instead of coming out.

Practice makes perfect.

 

[Kulindahr]

Practice makes perfect.

Actually, as my high school cross country coach regularly reminded us, practice tends to reinforce the level we are already good at, not bring change.

My other reaction to this is: so if I got kicked in the balls every night, I'd learn to enjoy it?

 

[Lube]

Actually, as my high school cross country coach regularly reminded us, practice tends to reinforce the level we are already good at, not bring change.

My other reaction to this is: so if I got kicked in the balls every night, I'd learn to enjoy it?

Well aren't you a nabob of negativity today.

So far my experience with anal toys reminds me of my first experiences with alcohol. I hated both at first.

They grow on you...

 

[Snickers52]

Thankfully, the only painful sexual experiences I've had are the ones I really wanted but was unsuccessful in getting.

 

[fontana]

First time with a much more mature man who made dam sure my cherry was popped, and popped well.