Painfully single, or...??

[maxpowr9]

I went through something similar when I moved in with my BF. I got depressed for the first two months when my friends in the city couldn't easily visit me since many are carless and I'm not even close to public transport. It only made it worse that my BF (and I was till I quit my job) is a workaholic who is almost never home.

As for the "gay scene". /sigh. If you think gay bars or cruising the gym = gay scene, you're doing it wrong. There's crap tons of gay groups out there depending on your community: from sport groups to dining groups to even book clubs. You're clearly not trying hard enough to find said groups.

I will say; bitchy, 'woe is me' types tend to be foreveralones.

 

[G-Lexington]

I will say; bitchy, 'woe is me' types tend to be foreveralones.

I know a surprising number of Eeyores who end up in relationships. But then they just become Eeyores in relationships. They don't transform into happy campers full of self-worth. Instead of being depressed that they're single and unlovable, they're depressed because the guy doesn't really show he cares...or depressed because they really don't deserve a guy like him, and he may as well just leave now because eventually he'll learn what the othrs have learned' that he's unlovable etc etc...

Lex

 

[littledaisy]

I'm very happy to be single (actually, never in a relationship)

Freedom is the most important thing for me. If you want to have sex with someone, neither sense of guilt nor sense of betray to your boyfriend,you can easily find them.(actually,I'm Virgin )