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Parents... swingers?

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Oh man, I am so confused. Before I go into all of this let me give you some background on my family so you know where I'm coming from. My family consists of My dad, my mom, my older brother and me. My mom has M.S. has has been in a wheelchair almost my entire life (I have no memory of her walking.) When I was a kid I found some porn my dad had including some swinger magazines (I still however think he never acted on this) and more into my later teen years I would notice him on the adult friend finders website (I could just make out the page before he shrunk it when I passed by the computer.)

The more perplexing thing is that once my mom got up to speed on the computer (about maybe a year and a half ago, two years tops) I would notice her on the site as well, not to mention instant message from strange guys when I was trying to help her out with something on the computer. I moved out in November and was working out with my dad and we were both going to be meeting back at the family house. I get there and there is a red corvette parked in my dad's parking spot. I enter the house through the garage and see this guy trying to leave out the front door (he was having issues because his hands were full... of what, I do not know.) He, then, a man I have never met said to me "Hey Brad close this door would ya?"

I just about close the door when he decides to introduce himself. His name is Art. Art is stooping my handicapped mother. I don't go looking for my mom but decide to burn myself some of the music I forgot to bring with me from the computer. After about thirty minuets my mom coems out and says something along the lines of "I don't know what to say. I won't say anything other than you met one of your dad's and my friend. He knows you but you don't know him.That's all I'm going to say."


WHAT THE HELL?!?!?! :grrr:
 
fine then just leave it at that and let it go. Your parents have the right right as anyone to to swing, what they do in private is theres.

If it becomes a issue it may be cus you keep makeing it.

Ok so your parents are MORE liberal that you thought. That does not make them bad parents. They have aright to enjoy there life just like you.

You being BI are liberal but in an other form.

It just makes it creepy cus you found out it is your parents. Thats always creepy cus we dont always think of our parents sexual prowelness.

So just relax. let it go, if they want to explain more then let them.

Be cool , be proud you have hip parents.

Take care................
 
Swingers? In Colorado?

I can't speak for you, but I don't like thinking about my parents' sex life. In my pleasant happy mind, my parents had sex precisely three times, had three kids, and otherwise led chaste and happy lives, la la la, I can't hear you. For all I know, they've got bondage gear hidden in their closet.

Your parents are apparently doing something above and beyond the vanilla sex thing, and you know what? Cool. They both know about it, they both appear to enjoy it, so leave them alone. If you happen to run into another "Art", just smile and say "So, is this somebody else I shouldn't ask about?"

Lex
 
I cannot speak for you, but I would not want my parents to come over and start debating my sexual life with me. Actually, I would not allow that at all.

Following that basic law of social symmetry, I'd grant my parents (and virtually, everybody else) absolutely the very same rights.

If there is something that you should know about it AND they choose to share with you, they certainly will... Other than that, stick with your own life and let them enjoy theirs.

SC
 
While at the dinner table say something like "I just wanted to say that I know you guys have some kinky friends and I want you to know that I would never judge you for it, By the way.....I'm Bisexual, can you pass the salt?."
 
I understand that this probably comes as a shock to you. I think it's something you should probably give some space. Actually, I'm sorry for you that you found out.

But I've known a lot of folks who have had great relationships with their "unconventional" parents.
 
Your parents undoubtedly love you. Love them back and accept them as they are, just as you want to be accepted as you are.

Still and all, I understand your "creepy" tag on this. I really do. Somehow, we cannot get over idea of our parents being sexual beings. I mean, ick.

(*8*)
 
Did he actually explain what he was doing there by way of introduction?
 
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