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yes - of course - otherwise you are trying to control another person which is futile and an exercise in mental masterbation... my partner can flirt and sleep with anyone he wants - he can spend whatever he wants - he can do whatever he wants... I learned this from my first relationship which lasted a little over 5 years but was painful messy and riddle with fights and arguments - luckily we remain good friends - I have had 2 relationships since one of about 15 years (my partner passed) and my current which is now about 9 years I think and both of those relationships have been argument free once I learned not to try to control - I literally never have arguments with my partner because there is zero expectations
 
We heed each other's likes and dislikes, but each have foods etc. that one of us likes and the other doesn't. It just means that we don't have to share.:lol:
 
Of course. He HATES the smell of windex, so I use vinegar to clean the lower shelf on the coffee table where he likes to sleep sometimes - even though I hate the smell of vinegar.
 
:rotflmao:

Ain't it the truth.

Of course I hate windex too...so tend to use vinegar as well.
 
There are always compromises in a relationship when what you do affects the other person. We try not to get petty and just ask for consideration with the most bothersome issues. Its a two way street and heeding his likes and dislikes to a reasonable degree helps in the future when I am the one with the issue. I do understand the control aspect and I check in with myself before bringing anything up.

I don't think you can live with anyone without making some adjustments. We did it as kids and we do it as adults. Its well worth the effort.
 
Some do better than others but I’m not going to mention any names….
 
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