I'm also in this situation. I'm 5" but since I gained weight, it looks slightly more than 4" which doesn't help my self esteem. Regardless it's something that we need to accept because we can't change it. Any guy who can't get over your size isn't worth being with.
Furthermore sex isn't entirely about penetrative sex for a lot of MSM, for some sex is purely about oral.
And yes telling people with small dicks that they should be bottoms is offensive. What if we just don't feel like we're bottoms? I certainly don't(i'm versatile). It's true some guys actually enjoy being able to easy give head to someone and still be able to breath comfortably and not gag while trying to do it, as well as not walk away sore from fucking. I've met plenty of them.
So don't think of yourself as inadequate, there is much to appreciate about you even if you're not hung like a horse.
Furthermore sex isn't entirely about penetrative sex for a lot of MSM, for some sex is purely about oral.
And yes telling people with small dicks that they should be bottoms is offensive. What if we just don't feel like we're bottoms? I certainly don't(i'm versatile). It's true some guys actually enjoy being able to easy give head to someone and still be able to breath comfortably and not gag while trying to do it, as well as not walk away sore from fucking. I've met plenty of them.
So don't think of yourself as inadequate, there is much to appreciate about you even if you're not hung like a horse.










