Penis Sensitivity

[ADarkStar1234]

Just wondering, I just had my first two seperate sexual encounters, and both guys tried to get me off by blowing me. But when they were doing it, I could barely feel anything down there. I am a bit disappointed and worried about the fact my cock may not be sensitive.

I am circumsized, and I know that will reduce some sensitivity, but it was to the point like I could barely tell my dick was in his mouth. Is there something I can do to help change that?

 

[ADarkStar1234]

Oh, and just to note, I couldn't cum either time, regardless of blowjob, oral, anal, or even him jerking me. I did cum when I jerked myself to climax though, the guy just watched.

 

[KaraBulut]

There are some guys for whom a blowjob just doesn't do it.

Do you feel that it's fine when you jackoff and top- it's just a blowjob that seems numb?

 

[ADarkStar1234]

When I topped, I didn't feel much either. But I'm wondering if it was just anxiety or something. I have fleshlights that I've been able to cum with.

I think I was also tired and I'm getting over a cold, might have also affected it.

 

[Benvolio]

Did you wear a condom, getting blown or, we hope, topping. It of course reduces friction and thus sensitivity. When you top, you might try the dry, unlubricated condoms. Lubricate them outside but not inside.

 

[KaraBulut]

And you're not on antidepressants or other meds?

 

[ADarkStar1234]

I did wear a condom, but I have tried them before just on my own and never had a problem.

and no, I'm not on any meds, I had take Advil cold and sinus that day and thats it.

 

[blublud]

It's not uncommon at all for guys not to be able to cum from receiving a bj. That doesn't mean that they don't enjoy it.

I can only come about 1/4 of the time from a bj. But, I still love it. I'd rather give head tho than receive it.