People keep stealing my friends whats going on

[Lewis1]

I feel I can relate, when I was young I was felt like if I was (at most) the second best friend... I never felt that I was really important to people.

yes it is not a good feeling
i never feel like someone is my friend for real

its like now if i meet someone and they call i feel like asking are u bored or something whu did u call?

 

[backpacker]

OK, you need to stop worrying about this friend and move on. He's not the type of friend you want him to be and that's probably not going to change. Focus your energy on finding some new friends.

 

[JFarm89]

Do you perhaps have a social problem like Aspergers Syndrome? My friend Graham has a bit of Asperger's Syndrome that he has to live with. It's a pain for him to understand and read people. Does it maybe have to do with your personality? Do people think you're strange to hang out with?

There are people that can help ya out. You just gotta do something fun, give your buds a ring to hang out and do something together. Shopping, go to a movie. etc

My friend Graham invites me to his place. But the thing that gets me so bored is when he plays on his computer. That doesn't really want to me hang out with him. But for me, I have to tell him. Graham lets do something together. You playing on your computer is boring for me to watch. And so he gets off of his computer and we watch a movie then it's okay.

Even your friend's need to say something to you so you could understand their feelings better. So you need some insight for sure from your friend's. So you can adapt and adjust to their wave length.

 

[Lewis1]

Do you perhaps have a social problem like Aspergers Syndrome? My friend Graham has a bit of Asperger's Syndrome that he has to live with. It's a pain for him to understand and read people. Does it maybe have to do with your personality? Do people think you're strange to hang out with?

There are people that can help ya out. You just gotta do something fun, give your buds a ring to hang out and do something together. Shopping, go to a movie. etc

My friend Graham invites me to his place. But the thing that gets me so bored is when he plays on his computer. That doesn't really want to me hang out with him. But for me, I have to tell him. Graham lets do something together. You playing on your computer is boring for me to watch. And so he gets off of his computer and we watch a movie then it's okay.

Even your friend's need to say something to you so you could understand their feelings better. So you need some insight for sure from your friend's. So you can adapt and adjust to their wave length.

(sigh) I have been diagnosed with aspergers but lol
im pretty good at reading people which is why i know not to impose myself when i am not wanted. and i am like a social chameleon in a sense that i give what i am getting
if the scene is fun n bubbly i can be that if its soft n reverent i can be that as well

aspergers is different or different ppul

and i do alot of work with my computer but i pull away from it alot

but it does impact me i can make friends easy but holding on to them is such a battle

but as of now i have no friends ur friend is lucky

 

[altlover85]

I hope you find friends Lewis1.

 

[texan_slant]

My heart goes out to you; don't give up.

Keep reaching out, and when that one true friend comes along, they'll stay by your side.

Who knows? Some of the ones you've met might come 'round again.

Hit me up with an email if ever you need someone to talk to!

 

[JFarm89]

(sigh) I have been diagnosed with aspergers but lol
im pretty good at reading people which is why i know not to impose myself when i am not wanted. and i am like a social chameleon in a sense that i give what i am getting
if the scene is fun n bubbly i can be that if its soft n reverent i can be that as well

aspergers is different or different ppul

and i do alot of work with my computer but i pull away from it alot

but it does impact me i can make friends easy but holding on to them is such a battle

but as of now i have no friends ur friend is lucky

Yep Graham tries hard to work through things. He tries to be funny but at the same time I do pity him, because he's not funny at all. But sometimes I get a good chuckle. He is so random. So I think you and him might get along well. I feel that it is tough to hang around with him. I don't know, but he's persistent on talking about relationships, keeps on going on and on, so it gets pretty annoying at times. It's sometimes best to keep your mouth closed when you don't have anything good to say. And he ends up getting teased and wants to talk to me of why he's getting teased. He keeps on telling me why do you hang around with Angus? Why don't you own a house? You're rich enough blah blah blah. I love honeycombs! Okay Graham, I heard it a billion times already but honeycombs? Seriously lame!! lol you know what I mean Lewis.

So I wish you luck Lewis! Try to flow with people's conversations. Pretend that you're having a serious discussion. Graham he gets pretty focused when he has serious discussions. With jokes don't even bother if it has nothing to do with the topics that your friend's talk about. Believe me. See each of your friend's once in a while not all the time, because we need space. I love seeing longtime no see friend's. Write down on paper or jot in you head of different topics that you would like to discuss. We like the variety of topics for sure!

 

[Lewis1]

Yep Graham tries hard to work through things. He tries to be funny but at the same time I do pity him, because he's not funny at all. But sometimes I get a good chuckle. He is so random. So I think you and him might get along well. I feel that it is tough to hang around with him. I don't know, but he's persistent on talking about relationships, keeps on going on and on, so it gets pretty annoying at times. It's sometimes best to keep your mouth closed when you don't have anything good to say. And he ends up getting teased and wants to talk to me of why he's getting teased. He keeps on telling me why do you hang around with Angus? Why don't you own a house? You're rich enough blah blah blah. I love honeycombs! Okay Graham, I heard it a billion times already but honeycombs? Seriously lame!! lol you know what I mean Lewis.

So I wish you luck Lewis! Try to flow with people's conversations. Pretend that you're having a serious discussion. Graham he gets pretty focused when he has serious discussions. With jokes don't even bother if it has nothing to do with the topics that your friend's talk about. Believe me. See each of your friend's once in a while not all the time, because we need space. I love seeing longtime no see friend's. Write down on paper or jot in you head of different topics that you would like to discuss. We like the variety of topics for sure!

That was cute but ....

GORL

Me and him are nothing alike If anything I need to say more. Not less
I feed off of other people if other people are talkative I will be that and if they don't have much to say I can only go but so far.

I am a natural born comedian since grade school. Everybody Genuinely laughs at my jokes not the fake chuckle shuffle you speak of with Graham

Ive done extensive research on aspergers syndrome and while there are general parallels there isnt a one- size fits all approach for everyone with the disorder

Ive stated I have trouble maintaining peer relations and other ppul steal my friends away. YOU DO NOT KNOW THE REASONS WHY THAT IS SO

I am looking for advice on how to prevent it from happening

Not an I-know-everything-about-you-because-my-friends-has-the same-disorder-you-do type of nonsense

 

[JFarm89]

That was cute but ....

GORL

Me and him are nothing alike If anything I need to say more. Not less
I feed off of other people if other people are talkative I will be that and if they don't have much to say I can only go but so far.

I am a natural born comedian since grade school. Everybody Genuinely laughs at my jokes not the fake chuckle shuffle you speak of with Graham

Ive done extensive research on aspergers syndrome and while there are general parallels there isnt a one- size fits all approach for everyone with the disorder

Ive stated I have trouble maintaining peer relations and other ppul steal my friends away. YOU DO NOT KNOW THE REASONS WHY THAT IS SO

I am looking for advice on how to prevent it from happening

Not an I-know-everything-about-you-because-my-friends-has-the same-disorder-you-do type of nonsense

Ah kay good good. Sorry for being a stereotype. So do your friend's talk to you from time to time? Or maybe you need to adjust your mentality and realize that maybe they aren't trying to steal your friend's away. Just only communicate with others. Try to initiate a discussion when you talk to other people. that will get them to talk to you, and you can make perhaps more friends' that way too. Maybe plan a day to give your friend's a call and watch a movie together, or chill and hangout. It's important to be naturally funny.