People who are comfortable in their own skin..

[Toy-Boy]

Are often subjected to abuse from others who aren't so comfortable with themselves. Insecure people love to put down those who are secure with themsevles, because they're so jealous that they haven't reached the same level of comfort that you have.

Has anyone ever experienced this?

 

[G-Lexington]

Not really, no. I mean, they attempt to from time to time. But since I AM comfortable in my own skin, I recognize it for what it is, and don't let it bother me.

Lex

 

[BrownBoi89]

I think everyone has experienced this at some point or another. People who are truly comfortable in their own skin will not let the insults or abuse affect them in anyway.

 

[braex27]

I'm not particularly comfortable in my skin, but it's the only one I'll ever get so I live with it. I greatly admire those who are comfortable in their skin, but have never been abusive nor have I ever been the subject of abuse by reason of anything to do with my looks.

 

[Marco Sensual]

Some gay men tried to put me down because im good looking.They said that gay men like you can have all the men they wants,you only care about the look,you are full of yourself,you go too often at the gym,you only have sex with good looking men,ect...

These average looking gay men said that because they are jealous that im a good looking man.

Maybe if these gay men would go at the gym instead of complaining about good looking gay men.They would feel better about themselves.They cant put down good looking gay men because they are angry that they are average looking men.

Im comfortable.I worked hard to have the muscles that gay men likes so much.When i was thin i was already a good looking man.Im better looking now.I have italian background.Italian men are beautiful.Im a lucky man.

I understand that lots of gay men can be jealous of good looking gay men.Because gay men are often superficial.So.Gay men often only wants to date good looking gay men.But.Its not a reason for average looking gay men to put down good looking gay men.Everybody knows that good looking gay men have it easier with gay men.But.Its not like average looking gay men cant date gay men at all.They can date gay men.But.They have it harder with superficial gay men.

You dont need to be good looking to be comfortable.Being good looking sure helps being comfortable.Mostly with gay men.You must accept the way you are.So.Gay men who are not superficial will see the self esteem.So.You could have a date with a man.

Gay men cant blame me because im beautiful.

Beautiful gay men doesnt have to feel guilty for being beautiful.

 

[Marco Sensual]

These men are most likely comfortable in their skin.

 

[StationToStation]

Are often subjected to abuse from others who aren't so comfortable with themselves. Insecure people love to put down those who are secure with themsevles, because they're so jealous that they haven't reached the same level of comfort that you have.

Has anyone ever experienced this?

Fucking true that!!!

Misery loves company, so there are people out there who will be mean to me because I got my shit together and they don't.

One has to stay strong and avoid those parasites, and treat even with more kindness, so their fucking lame attitude just sticks out like a nasty wart.

 

[CudDULL]

I've met people like that people.

I'm a very open person and don't mind when I get picked on or anything because I'm just comfortable with who I am and not conceited but overall happy with everything about me.

I also understand that everything is subjective so if I do something that someone might not like it is not gonna kill me if I make them unhappy if I feel like I can get away with it myself.

But the people that always try to bring me down are those that have an issue with my happiness and can't stand it so the best way is to never let their hate affect my emotions or temper. People know I have good self control and don't fold to other peoples bullshit. I might play along but in the end of the day I know jealousy when I see it.

 

[FPNY]

I smyatch at people like that who try to make me feel uncomfortable about myself. I know what my good attributes are and I know what my short comings are. I can laugh at them when someone points something like that out. I just laugh and laugh....