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People who Have 'Issues' RE: My Bisexuality

We usually come to JUB together but I told her I started a thread about this. She read my original post and she was like me, curious to hear what other's think. She hasn't read any responses I don't think because she has been spending a lot of time at her house packing things up bringing them over to my place. As of a week and a half ago I was over there helping but since I discovered what her family knows and what they think of me I have stayed a safe distance. Since she is now using my computer she likes to come to JUB when I am around. Usually when I am on here and she walks into the room she'll sit on my lap and more or less take over. She seems to like the 'Show off yourself' forum the most and has offered to take some snaps of me. I think I eventually will but am still sort of shy. We already have a video we made that we put together on the Mac that we watch a lot.

So, I am not worried or concerned about anything she reads here that I post. We have no secrets at all. As of now I am staying away from her family and her friend. She knows she has to have a sit down and tell her friend "how it is" and she absolutely dreads it. I feel bad for her but offer no advice.
 
Romantico said:
We usually come to JUB together but I told her I started a thread about this. She read my original post and she was like me, curious to hear what other's think. She hasn't read any responses I don't think because she has been spending a lot of time at her house packing things up bringing them over to my place. As of a week and a half ago I was over there helping but since I discovered what her family knows and what they think of me I have stayed a safe distance. Since she is now using my computer she likes to come to JUB when I am around. Usually when I am on here and she walks into the room she'll sit on my lap and more or less take over. She seems to like the 'Show off yourself' forum the most and has offered to take some snaps of me. I think I eventually will but am still sort of shy. We already have a video we made that we put together on the Mac that we watch a lot.

So, I am not worried or concerned about anything she reads here that I post. We have no secrets at all. As of now I am staying away from her family and her friend. She knows she has to have a sit down and tell her friend "how it is" and she absolutely dreads it. I feel bad for her but offer no advice.
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Well,Glad to hear it. I'm also happy to hear that you two have such an open honest relationship. That's a very good foundation to begin with. Sorry,You guys have hit a rough patch with her family and friends. The male friend with the crush still worries me.
 
He worries me to. He is very much the homophobic type and he really likes my GF. I can tell the whole thing is bothering my GF more than she is letting on. I don't think she wants to worry me. Other than all this, all is well. I've never been this happy with someone. I've never had sex this good. I've never felt more loved than I have with her. Weird thing is, it all seems so effortless for both of us. I think when you find someone you love it all comes natural. I think the family will come around (although the AIDS comment disturbs me VERY much and once things smooth over I plan on discussing that remark to them in detail) As for her friend, I don't think it's going to last. My gf has said too many things over the past day or two which leads me to believe she just doesn't give a shit about her at this point. I'm sure the friend will blame me for it all and frankly, thats okay by me. Anyways, thanks for asking!
 
Romantico said:
I've never been this happy with someone. I've never had sex this good. I've never felt more loved than I have with her. Weird thing is, it all seems so effortless for both of us. I think when you find someone you love it all comes natural.
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In my experience, It does come natural when mutual love is the driving force. Being loving can overcome almost anything. However, I have also found that the fireworks of that 'electric love' do slow down over time and the health of the relationship depends on honesty and above all communication between the partners. It is all too easy to assume those things that need to be shared about. As time goes along, everyone changes or discovers false self beliefs and solid foundations that were previously unknown. The challenge is to just love each other while doing the work of a relationship while keeping in mind all work and no play... :)
 
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