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Perfect Scenario? So why dont i come out?

seems like u r in a very good place

and it is ur decision

it seems ur teed up to come out

if u want

I love ur honesty in ur posting

good luck
 
Mick J said:
maybe i just wish that if i was out then the man of my dreams would come out to me and we'd hook up! fat chance..
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This bit of text grabbed my attention. While coming out will not (well maybe but it's highly unlikely) cause your knight in shining armor to come riding up, I think you'll find it a lot harder to find worthwhile gay guys who want to get involved with a closet case.
 
hi guys,
im pretty sad and depressed right now. I just found out from someone that one of my best girl friends has a genetic disease called cystic fibrosis. I guess it makes you die a lot younger. (the someone that told me's relative died from it at age 21). I dont know details about how mild or severe it is but i read that only half live past 35... makes me think about how fragile life is and how important it is for me to enjoy it. not to waste time in the closet.. and of course have more fun with my friend. (i dont think im supposed to know about it)

sigh.. anyways my girls asked me more questions tonight about who i like, if i ever plan on having a serious girlfriend, and such. one said "i wish i had a gay friend to take me to homecoming". lol

im convincing myself i want to come out soon, but i dont know who to start with or how to tell them... i hate it being such a big deal and such a long process...
 
You're right, life is short.

Carpe diem.

But on the other hand, make sure you are absolutely prepared for all the reactions.
 
Wow...reading this makes me feel like I should have come out when I was in high school. You don't know how lucky you are to have friends like that.

I guess you have to wait for that moment when everything feels right and you just come out and say it.
 
Mick J said:
sigh.. anyways my girls asked me more questions tonight about who i like, if i ever plan on having a serious girlfriend, and such. one said "i wish i had a gay friend to take me to homecoming". lol
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It would really surprise me if these girls didn't already know. Asking questions like that is just their not so direct but incredibly obvious way of trying to confirm their suspicions about your sexual orientation. By that same token, it wouldn't surprise me one bit if their reaction was along the lines of "Finally! I've been waiting 3 years for you to say that!" Of course, that would pretty much be the best reaction you could possibly get for coming out ..|
 
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