Perspective

[jasoncrew03]

I don't find Trey attractive at all.

 

[clicker]

I am saying that before you go accusing everyone of my gender for being anything ask someone amongst you to explain certain behaviors.

While I know nothing about being a gay man there are many things I relate to here. No, not so much feeling left out, as feeling bad that there are groups of people out there who feel they need to blame my whole gender for the acts of a handful of people not brought up properly.

There is always an exception to the stereotype. I'm here to help some of you who don't believe that, see it.

A few examples:
I do not smell like a fish. Most days I smell like whatever perfume I decide I feel like that day. I know how to wash myself properly and therefore have never been accused of smelling like an aquarium.

I do not proclaim hot gay men "a waste." I actually say things like "cool, hope he finds a hot man for himself." Or even "hey he's hot." And never even talk about his sexuality.

I'm not here on JUB or on Earth to convert anyone to straighthood. I am a firm believer that we are born with our attractions and I'm not here to change that.

I am not a fag hag. While I have several gay male friends it is not my interest to surround myself with gays and run around at gay clubs acting like a retard. There are many women that do that, and there are many that do not. And on that same line, all my gay male friends hate shopping. With a passion. I didn't befriend them because of what I thought I could get out of them, I befriended them because they're nice people. Their sexuality didn't factor in. It just happened to be a part of who they are when we met.

As for why I am here: I found JUB through many of the same means some of you all did, the porn. I stayed because there were a lot of interesting topics and people here. I keep leaving and coming back because I'm not really made for this internet thing. I care too much. And it gets me in trouble.

wonderful. I like your values.

 

[neditesjamais]

Ok, my weekend's looking up. I never really explored CF (for some reason I can not imagine right now). But that's where I'm goin'.

Thanks, illgetbi, for asking, and Stacy, for starting this thread so that I could get these great recommendations.

[The punctuation on that sentence is going to keep me up the rest of the night. But I'm too horny right now to rethink and fix it. Your fault!]

ned

 

[neditesjamais]

I don't find Trey attractive at all.

You got a pulse?

Oooops. Already asked you that, didn't I?

reach down somewhere and check it

ned

 

[freefall]

Hey Stacy. You may not know me but I do know you and sorry for not realising you were off JUB for awhile.

My question is like this: as a straight person, how do you feel about people calling things gay as jokes or expressions? I'm asking this because gay people tend to reject it and see it as offensive while straight people who never interact with gay people will see it as, "Dude, it's only an adjective. What's ya problem here?"

 

[BINOWGAYLATER]

I've got no questions for Stacy.

We go back to the very old User Plane chat - and I liked her even before I saw her tits ! That's all I'm sayin.

Sometimes we agree to disagree - but Stacy P. been berry berry good to me. (I made a rhyme !) teee

heee........